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It’s Complicated Community Association Meetings Monthly Schedule

Or, Is It? (All meetings held via Zoom and in person.)

By Josette Veltri
All meetings will be held electronically via Zoom and in person. The following is our regular
How often do we hear
ourselves repeating “It’s schedule of monthly meetings, however, sometimes meetings are cancelled or schedules are
complicated,” before revised due to holidays, etc. If you would like to attend, please call the BPCA office, (561)
walking away? Yes, I agree 395-7551, the day before the meeting to request the Zoom link be emailed to you.
human beings are filled
with complex emotions,
living complex lives amidst Access Control & Safety Committee TBD
complex circumstances.
And, yes, at times it is Architectural Control Site Committee TBD
complicated or, could there
be more effective solutions? Board of Directors 3rd Tuesday of each month at 9:30 a.m.
Throughout our lives,
we often find ourselves Budget & Finance Committee TBD
battling over who will host
this year’s holiday gathering
- never failing to remind
all involved that we hosted
last year’s event. And, to
further complicate matters,
we engage in a tug of war
over family birthdays, weddings, Christening, Bar or Bat
Mitzvahs. We can’t even have a simple barbecue with friends
without over-analyzing who should be invited, we create a
catastrophic complicated nightmare.
Yes, human beings are complicated and continue to
play and replay the IF ONLY HE, SHE, THEY WOULD
____THEN I WOULD _____ game. But why?
Perhaps it’s because we gravitate toward overthinking that
causes our anxiety. Or, perhaps our stressors keep us tossed
in tailspins of confusion and frustrations? Or, is it because
we are unaware that we may lose this battle or two and still
win the war?
We know change is uncomfortable and at times, can be
complicated. But the fact be known, it does not have to be
complicated at all IF we learn and put into practice what
researchers call Intellectual Humility.
Intellectual humility is when we become aware and
recognize that our beliefs might be wrong, and our opinions
may be fallible because of our psychological biases.
(greatergood.berkeley.edu)
When intellectual humility is practiced, we consider the

viewpoints of others – ALL OTHERS. And, we choose to BUYER? SELLER?
let the rope go and stop playing tug of war with people we Call Joe Young
care about and love before it is too late. As we deepen our THIS IS THE MARKET YOU YOU NEED EXPOSURE &
intellectual humility, we learn to separate our ego mind from
our wise mind and decline defensiveness when challenged HAVE BEEN WAITING FOR! AGGRESSIVE MARKETING!
or believe we need to be right.
After a bit of research, I found a piece known as “Slowly (561) 756-8508 (561) 756-8508

I Turned,” a popular skit from Vaudeville where a character Hope everyone is doing okay during these challenging times. I am here to assist any way I can.
relating a story begins to trigger the listener who then
reacts to the triggering word or phrase. Let this not be the
case with you or me but let’s mindfully practice the art of
uncomplicating our lives. REDUCED NEW LISTING
Now, after reading this article, we may still want to
complicate things by replaying IF ONLY HE, SHE, THEY
WOULD ____THEN I WOULD _____, and that’s ok. I only
ask that you think about the words of entrepreneur Richard
Branson, “Complexity is your enemy. Any fool can make
something complicated. It is hard to keep things simple.”

Josette Veltri, a Boca Pointe resident, is a certified educator
and coach on loss and transition. Her purpose, to assist clients
heal and move forward so they can go from I Can’t to I Can, One

Step at a Time. She can be reached at josette@nextstepnewstart. 859 Jeffery Street $749,000 6422 Via Rosa $1,175,000
com (https://www.linkedin.com/in/josettejveltri/) 
3/2 1,682 total sq. ft.

Dear Boca Pointe CLOSED CLOSED

Dog Owners:

We have had a few recent complaints
from residents who have had uncomfortable
encounters with dogs off leash
around the property. We are
reaching out to our residents to
remind them of our rules concerning
keeping dogs on leashes and cleaning pet litter. As a
resident of Boca Pointe you must: Keep your dog on a

leash. All dogs must be controlled on a leash by an able- 7276 Via Palomar $749,000 6539 Via Rosa $699,000
bodied person, at all times, whenever the dog is on property. 3/2 2,570 total sq. ft. 3/2 3,094 total sq. ft.
Also, you must clean up and properly dispose of pet waste
when your pet relieves itself. Knowing and abiding by our For all your real estate needs call or visit our web page Define Your Life in a Non-Mandatory Country Club
Define Your Membership - Social, Golf, Tennis
community’s animal-related ordinances will help make our Define Your Time from 3 months to a year
neighborhood a better place for everyone. Thank you!  www.GetaHouseOnline.com the Club at Boca Pointe