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Charity EvEnt

Ibis Charities Foundation Helps Fund

Mortgage-Free Home For United States Air Force

Master Sergeant Frankie Reilly

The look on retired U.S. Air Force Master Sgt. Francis “This is unbelievable,” Reilly said as his family walked
“Frankie” Reilly’s face said it all. He didn’t need to say a word. through the rooms. “I can’t believe this is our new home.
As Reilly and his wife, Heather, walked into the home – their It’s incredible.”
new home – tears welled up in his face as he saw the finished It was unbelievable, incredible, heartwarming and
four-bedroom, three-bathroom building for the first time. He deserving for the 49-year-old Reilly, who almost lost his
stretched his arms over his face in disbelief and couldn’t speak right leg in 2004 while serving as a United States Air
for several seconds as he tried to control his emotions. Force Pararescue veteran. During the jump, when his
The Singles Scene July 2024
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By Kelly Leary, M.S. & Miranda Capparelli a shallow and inefficient way of finding true love. It makes us
The Official Summer Dating sad, but we are thrilled to be the solution to the wreckage forged
by digital dating.
Report 4. Tradition is Essential. In our office, old-school dating
methods have re-emerged in a refreshing manner. People are
“And the men who hold high places getting to know each other better before making harsh, false
Must be the ones who start judgments or jumping into the wrong relationship too quickly
To mold a new reality (love bombing). A first date through us is not an interview.
Closer to the heart”~~RUSH, Circa 1977 We do the interviewing for all of you. Our client’s job is to
go on a date to have fun. That’s it. Simple. Make dating fun
Happy 4th of July to all of again—with our help! Heather and Frankie Reilly with Ibis’ Wayne Crowder in the
our clients, couples, and Reilly’s new home
friends. We are not surprised 5. The Non-Negotiables. You do have to make a change and
that our phones continue give yourself permission to be vulnerable. There is no way
to ring off the hook in the around it–unless you want to be alone for life. There are no parachute deployed, it pulled his leg, snapping it backward
heat of summer. Confidential dating hacks (other than hiring a “real” matchmaker). There and causing severe trauma to his leg and foot. His leg was
applications pour in with the is no insurance policy on love per se. You can, however, date saved, but he suffered a Traumatic Brain Injury (TBI) and
same zeal as September and smart while positioning yourself to meet authentic people via developed PTSD.
October (in preparation for private introductions from connected matchmakers. Meeting
holiday coupling). The human new people through mutual contacts is the way to go--and this is Two decades later, Reilly walked into his new
condition and mood is quite how our clients feel. Just like meeting their new date through a mortgage-free home, thanks to the generosity of Ibis
sensitive lately, whether you friend. Friendships form quickly here and it starts with one fifteen Charities Foundation, Building Homes for Heroes and
are aware of it or not. Society minute phone call. Essentially, working with a matchmaker is how PulteGroup. After moving dozens of times during his 24-
yearns for extra light and to stay emotionally, fiscally, and physically secure. year military career, the Reillys finally had a place they
happiness which we are here
to serve to all who cross our path in or out of our office. 6. The Takeaway. If you or someone you know has fallen victim could call their home. It included a pool in the backyard
to the surface-level digital dating dilemma, we cannot fault you. and a workout room filled with machines for Reilly, a
To add to the drive for better vibes and higher vibrations, online This is where many dating problems begin and end. We advise Paralympic cycling athlete.
dating is taking an even deeper nose dive with each passing month you to get real—live and date in real life. Love offline because it’s “This is one of the greatest days in my life, next to
in 2024. The statistics are noteworthy. Quality singles looking for time and life is moving quickly. Be confident, smart, and carry on the day I got married and the day my three children were
a true connection are no longer interested in being matched by an with passion this summer. Every pot has a lid. Stop overthinking
algorithm on a risky dating site. That would be like buying your and make your move halfway through the year and end the year born,” Reilly said.
wedding dress at a flea market or finding your financial advisor under the mistletoe. This July, we have some exclusive specials Monday’s ceremony was attended by more than 200
on the dark web. You can’t trust what you read online and we that will only be available to our loyal readers and their friends. people who lined the street as a procession of police cars,
all know this by now. Fortunately for you and us, summer love Share the love and pass it on! Be sure to mention this article and a firetruck and fellow veterans led the family to the home.
in real life (IRL) is alive and thriving--thanks to our hard work Code: SUMMERLOVE24 when you book your confidential It was an emotional, uplifting ceremony that left
and huge following. appointment.
Reilly struggling for words when he slowly walked to
Read on to validate your own movement today. We look for In times of doubt, create more love. We wish you tons of the podium, a brace on his right leg.
certain traits in our clients. After three decades of experience happiness this July and for the last six months of the year. “To say this home is a gift is an understatement,” he
filtering and screening our applicants, we have gotten MUCH May the force of love be with you. said. “It’s a symbol of hope and a testament of boundness
PICKIER as to who we will represent. Thank us later. If the and goodness. It’s a place where we can establish lasting
following points resonate with you, you know what to do next. As XOXO,
always, if you are TAKEN, do share this fun news with your single The Double Win Matchmakers, Kelly & Miranda memories.”
family and friends! We thank you for your love and loyalty to us. Ibis Charities Foundation, the charitable arm of The
#MakeDatingFunAgain #SummerLove #LandOfTheFree Club at Ibis in West Palm Beach, funded the project last
#HomeOfTheRev #America #TellYourFriends year with a $100,000 donation, with Building Homes for
CURRENT CLIMATE:
Revolution Dating Heroes and PulteGroup doing its part to make Reilly’s
1. Upscale Singles are Ready for an Upgrade. Outside of our Founder and CEO, Kelly dream a reality.
community, the social scene for dating in 2024 has morphed Leary, M.S. has 33 years Three years ago, Ibis Charities Foundation funded two
into a low-grade rodeo filled with Buckle Bunnies and Clowns. in the dating industry projects to help veterans make modifications on their
This has caused people to simply stay home and remain single. and a Master’s Degree in homes. But the Ibis residents wanted to do more.
In fact, more people are single than ever before and many are Clinical Psychology. She “We are blessed to live where we do, and we don’t
losing hope. Times have changed (way too much). We are far has also been written about
away from traditions and dating norms, and it needs to STOP. in The Palm Beach Post, take that lightly,” said Wayne Crowder, president of The
Women and men need a return to chivalry. Nostalgia is the order PalmBeacher Magazine, Club at Ibis’ board and a retired Lt. Colonel in the U.S.
of the day in this dating arena. Stuart News, Modern Marine Corps who served in Vietnam. “It is a privilege
Luxury Palm Beach, for us to be able to contribute to a project like this.
2. The Script Needs a Flip. At the center of the dating and M ode r n L uxur y “To see Master Sgt. Reilly and his family here
damage is the dehumanizing effects of online dating and too Manhattan plus many
much technology. People are being punked, ghosted, and more. Revolution Dating members are pre-screened experience the joy and pride of their new home while
disillusioned by far too many “options”--creating casual, creepy, in-person including background checks. Professional feeling the respect of the community is special. This is
and unfulfilling interactions. Today’s dating culture no longer photos are taken by the staff. Revolution Dating is NOT a contribution, but it is given in respect and honor to his
encourages singles to focus their energy on one person at a online dating or blind dating. In addition to providing service and for his family’s support.”
time. This results in superficial dating and thinking the “next” matchmaking services that make singles “UN-single” Reilly said he had never heard of The Club at Ibis until
will be better. through their exclusive club memberships, Kelly and her
team also provide feedback from dates when appropriate. he learned of their donation last year to start the project.
3. Transactional Dating Must Cease. Outside of our office, Mock Dates are available by request. Single Coaching Now, he feels a part of that community.
dating has become transactional and short-lived, with immediate Sessions and Evaluations are also available by request for “The residents at Ibis … they define America and what
gratification as the goal versus true love. Sending meaningless non-members or as an add-on to some memberships. *All America is,” Reilly said. “To not know someone and to
texts and gazing at photos to create false conclusions and opinions inquiries are confidential. *By demand, a Northeast/TriState step up and help them build a home … that’s our mantra
about total strangers is on the rise. The vicious cycle will continue area Hub is now available for east coast clients that love
for you and/or your single friends if the cycle is not broken. The to travel. Do call the main hotline for more information at in the USA, to stand up for others who have fallen.
longer a single person remains online dating (or alone), the more 561-630-XOXO (9696) or learn more on our website at www. “I’m so thankful to Ibis, I would go work for them for
jaded they will become. If they wait too long and then come into RevolutionDsting.com :: Home of THE Award-Winning free, 100 percent. I would go and caddie and do whatever
our office, the first few weeks are spent debriefing them on all Matchmaker This is a First Come, First Serve Model, so they need me to do. I love Ibis.”
the bad habits they picked up with their online expeditions. It is do get your name on the A-List today.