Page 5 - Jupiter West - March '24
P. 5

Jupiter West, Page 5
      The Pet Cottage Post




      The Pet Cottage Is A New                           people in our community the opportunity for pet
                                                         companionship with the full support of The Pet Cottage.
      Concept                                              We provide and cover the cost of all medical care
                                                         – routine, specialty, emergency, and even prescription
        We celebrate and protect                         medications and preventatives – for our pets, forever. We
      the magical relationship                           do ask that our forever guardians provide food for their
      between people and pets                            pet, along with lots of tender love and care, of course!
      by  providing homestyle                            We Are A Win-Win-Win Solution
      care for pets who lose                               Many of our pets are senior pets that have health
      their humans due to death,                         issues and require more resources. Many of our forever
      disability, or deployment                          guardians are also seniors who wouldn’t otherwise feel
      through our Li fel ong                             comfortable taking on full pet ownership at this stage in
      Guardianship  Program. We                          life. Our forever promise to each pet in our care means
      provide pet companionship for                      that no matter what happens
      senior people, and we fully support them by covering   to a guardian, the pet will
      all veterinary expenses, providing regular check-ins and   have a loving home. It’s a                Grace and Angel         Sally and Michelle
      giving a peace of mind that the pet will always have a   win-win-win situation that
      home with us.                                      makes us do a happy dance.                        New Forever Guardians
        We are not an adoption agency or foster program. We     Because of  The Pet                        Needed
      are a new concept. Our Lifelong Guardianship Program   Cottage,  Marty,  a  senior                     If you love pets and want
      means our pets will always have the home, care, and love   gentleman in Jupiter Farms                to make a difference in the
      they deserve for life, no matter what. Our pets live on   who is health compromised,                 community, please contact
      site at our sanctuary or in the home of a forever guardian.   is able to love and care               us for more information
      This is what makes us different from rescue and shelter   for Scooby, a 9-year-old                   about forever guardianship
      organizations.                                     senior dachshund. Scooby                          and volunteer opportunities.
      Why We Don’t Offer Adoption                        was Marty’s saving grace                          We have room in our pack
        The pets that enter our                          during COVID and still is                         for you!
      program have loyally served                        to this day.                                              The Pet Cottage,
      and participated in the                              Because of  The Pet                                      (561) 818-5025,
      lives of their owners. They                        Cottage, Grace, a senior                             www.thepetcottage.org
      have been adored, loved                            lady with a fixed income                                                  Wendy and Bella Pom
      and  cherished. Therefore,                         in Stuart, is able to share  Scooby
      a traditional adoption                             her home and heart with
      model, that doesn’t include                        Angel, a 13-year-old Chihuahua. Grace was a perfect fit
      communication and updates                          for Angel after Angel’s mom had to move into a memory
      about the life of the pet                          care facility.
                                                           Because of The Pet Cottage, Michelle, a senior lady
      moving forward, does not                           in Jupiter, gets to spend her days with Sally, a 13-year- When Kids Say,
      support the people we serve.
        Additionally, most                               old Selkirk Rex cat. Michelle and her late husband John
                                                         became  forever  guardians  in  2020  during  John’s  lung
      adoption agencies leave out                        cancer treatment. Sally was such a bright spot during  ‘I’m Better Off
      senior people. However,
      our model of forever                               that time. And since John’s passing, Sally has continued
      guardianship  gives  senior                        to provide Michelle with joy and companionship.    Dead’


                                                                                                            By Jim Forgan, Ph.D.,
                                                                                                            Licensed School
                                                                                                            Psychologist
                                                                                                              A concerned parent
                                                                                                            came  to  us  for  testing
                                                                                                            because on more than one
                                                                                                            occasion her son said, “I
                                                                                                            shouldn’t be alive. I’m
                                                                                                            better off dead.” Before
                                                                                                            contacting us, this mom
                                                                                                            had already hid all the
                                                                                                            sharp knives in her home.
                                                                                                            She was wise to seek
                                                                                                            professional support rather than dismissing or scolding her
                                                                                                            child for saying that since suicide in children is a real concern.
                                                                                                            According to the Center for Disease Control’s website and
                                                                                                            Youth Risk Survey Data, among adolescents aged 12 to 17,
                                                                                                            18.8 percent had seriously considered attempting suicide,
                                                                                                            15.7 percent made a suicide plan, and 8.9 percent attempted
                                                                                                            suicide. These percentages are higher for youth of color and
                                                                                                            those identifying as LGBTQ.
                                                                                                              Our school neuropsychological testing revealed he had
                                                                                                            ADHD and learning disabilities which caused significant
                                                                                                            school problems. This boy was viewed as the class clown
                                                                                                            and became the one people pointed to and assumed was the
                                                                                                            disruptive cause when there was a problem. This contributed
                                                                                                            to him feeling rejected by most of his peers and teacher.
                                                                                                            Furthermore, his learning disabilities interfered with his
                                                                                                            reading, writing, and spelling so he was academically behind
                                                                                                            his peers. This caused embarrassment and he felt stupid. His
                                                                                                            circumstances created the perfect storm for him to cry out
                                                                                                            to his parent that he was better off dead. This boy had no
                                                                                                            suicidal plan but he did not have the appropriate words to
                                                                                                            express he wanted help and understanding.
                                                                                                              This boy’s mom wanted to know how to help and our
                                                                                                            testing results report provided recommendations. They
                                                                                                            obtained a public school plan called an Individualized
          Licensed and Insured                                                                              Education Plan which provided specialized instruction. As
                                                                                                            a family they began working with a counselor to improve
                                                                                                            home communication and understanding. Step by step they
                                                                                                            made changes to help their child’s mental health and learning.
                                                                                                              If you or your child have suicidal thoughts or behaviors,
                                                                                                            call or text 988 for the suicide and crisis lifeline. You know
                                                                                                            your child best so if you are concerned about a potential
                                                                                                            learning disability, autism, or ADHD, call to discuss your
                                                                                                            child. Visit JimForgan.com or call (561) 625-4125.
   1   2   3   4   5   6   7   8