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The Singles Scene Column ©

What Type Of Single Are You? bars or online dating sites and is rather desperate to find the 80s), given the right circumstances and opportunity,
The Lucy Goosey: Typically female. Often found in
can really have a ball. I see it all the time! I am not even
By: Kelly Leary© M.S., a partner. Most divorced or never married and age 25 to afraid to age anymore! Thank you to all my seniors for
Founder of Revolution 60. This single jumps from date to date rapidly. They being so cool and open minded to love/kinship after loss
Dating confuse the physical aspects of intimacy with love and of a spouse. It can happen.
Knowledge is power and commitment and are often left with feelings of rejection, May all of your April Goals come true! Let’s give
YOU hold the key to your insecurity, jealousy...because she is rarely...if ever...the you exciting moments to look forward to this coming
future relationship. Only “chosen one.” She will date almost “anyone” who pays summer. Take a moment to do something solely for YOU.
YOU have the power to attention to her. This person is, well, desperate. I typically Love, Kelly
navigate the change needed don’t meet this type of person in my office and I would #LoveFest2022 #AimTrueIn2022 #LoveOffline
on your personal road from rather not work with this type--to be honest. It is too #WhyBeSingle #TellYourFriends #SheConnects
SINGLE to TAKEN. If you unattractive--as a character trait--and they usually scare
are in “relationship limbo” or people off after one date. They are tough to be with on Kelly Leary’s career spans a successful three decades
“in between relationships” do identify what type of single any level, frankly. I’m sure you know the type. In their in the love business. In her 31 years of experience, she
you represent by choosing from the below categories. Do book of life it is never their fault. Blame games abound. has watched the dating scene morph drastically with
this today and take deliberate action toward change. Let’s The Even Steven: He is a total mess. Commonly the onset of online dating and she has witnessed a huge
figure this out, together. divorced or never married. Age 25 to 60. He is the male boom in her longstanding private practice--especially
The Curmudgeon Single: This type may be single, counterpart of Lucy Goosey. He wants love and intimacy post pandemic. With her Master’s Degree in Clinical
divorced or widowed. Key traits: cranky, negative, grouchy but can’t seem to shake his past failures. This man Psychology, with a Forensic Concentration, she has
and in some ways even unlovable. There may be a sense of blames women for all his failings and suffers from great revolutionized the industry. She has been profiled by
desire for another completely “out of their league” which insecurity in and out of the bedroom. He may also over- PalmBeacher Magazine, Stuart News, Boca Magazine,
exaggerates their bad attitude as they are never satisfied. compensate for his weakness by seeking multiple notches The Palm Beach Post and other publications. Kelly
Likelihood of resuming a (healthy) relationship is slim to none. in his head board...to get “EVEN” with the opposite sex... was also named “Florida Woman” in recent years. Her
Open to change: minimal. This male or female may have been trying to desperately make himself “whole” again. He clients are prescreened first, including background
cheated on or took a large hit in life and never recovered. This is rarely successful and noncommittal when all is said checks. Professional client photos are taken in house.
person can be helped with some therapy or a complete change and done. Most men like this prey in bars, online dating Revolution Dating is not online dating or blind dating.
of attitude. However, a “revolution” becomes less likely the sites or the social media area. Luckily again, I don’t meet In addition to providing matchmaking services that
longer this person stays single. If this is you, get moving while many of these social predators in my office. They are too make singles “UN-single” through their exclusive
you’ve still got it. As it stands, with no therapy or mindset happy with the dark side of keyboard dating, which is connections, Kelly is also involved in the charity
change this person is undateworthy. Many people online fall more ominous. Even Steven’s like to operate under the community sponsoring organizations like The Leukemia
into this category. They are just no fun to be around, right? radar of responsible authentic dating. Lymphoma Society, Furry Friends, and Chasin’ A
You can make much better use of your time. The Past Life Blessed: Widow or widower of any age, Dream Foundation. To get started, simply call (561)
The HopeFUL Romantic: Luckily “most” of the people although typically age 55 to 80 plus. This male or female 630-XOXO (9696) or (772) 932-HERE (4373) or register
I meet are this type of person (yeah). This male or female had a special marriage. They have grieved appropriately on her website at www.revolutiondating.com.
has felt love in the most beautiful sense of the word. They and are now ready to find new companionship (not
have also felt heartache but they continue to love more... marriage per se). This group does very well in my club
and they almost always do! WHY? Because they believe in as long as they avoid comparing their matches to their late
love AND they know they are lovable. This person knows the husband or wife. I have seen many widows and widowers
benefits of love will ALWAYS outweigh the risks. Single, find love again in my club--and it is SO REWARDING.
divorced, or widowed of ALL AGES this person has a high My heart goes out to those who have found the key to
success rate in my club and the odds are in their favor. This happy marriage...and I know...as with the “HOPEFUL
person can be alone but their ultimate desire is to find their ROMANTICS” that there can be a chapter after a loss of
forever/grand finale love. a spouse. This generation of seniors today (from 60s to

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