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      Desire for Jewish Life
          Among the close to 5,000 pounds of food and other
      desperately needed items we brought with us were dozens
      of challahs that will be frozen at the synagogue and used
      for the next year, as well as Shabbat candles so Cuban
      Jews can keep the flame of Jewish life kindled.
          After Friday night services, we joined our Cuban hosts
      for a Shabbat dinner and witnessed the amazement from
      the attendees when they saw challah on the table — a rare
      luxury since Cubans are only allowed to purchase five eggs
      per person each month with their ration cards.

      Jewish Education
          It’s hard for us here in the Palm Beaches to imagine   Children preparing to lead the prayer
      the daily struggle of life in Cuba to simply acquire food.   over challah           Cleaning graves at the Jewish cemetery   October 7 memorial
      Add to that unpredictable rolling blackouts. Now imagine
      a darkened synagogue without air conditioning, where      Sunday school, Bar and Bat Mitzvah training, ceremonies
      dozens of children, their parents, grandparents, and young   remembering murdered Israeli hostages, and rehearsals for an
      adults gather to take part in Jewish life.        upcoming Purim celebration — these are all part of Jewish
                                                        life in Cuba.

        The Singles Scene Column                                            ©



        Keepsake Love Notes from                        be shared equally. If someone is doing 90% of the talking,
        Your Matchmakers                                there is a problem. You won’t get the second date.
                                                        ♥When you break up, do it with class. Don’t break up
                                                        through an email or text. Be forthright but humble.
        By Kelly Leary, M.S. &
        Miranda Capparelli                              ♥Grieving is brutal but essential. Everyone has their
                                                        own timeline. You will know when you are ready to
          “It’s important for                           get back in the game. In this day and age, seniors are
        people to remember that                         dating after losing a spouse, and they are finding a new   Jewish public art
        we are the creators of our                      companion. Avoid comparisons. Give yourself permission
        lives instead of the victims                    to start a new chapter with new actors and a new plot.
        of it.” ~ Dr. Joe Dispenza                      ♥Join the love movement just for YOU. Stand up for   Our Takeaways
          Happy Spring from                             something that you want in your life moving forward. Be      While our group brought gifts of incredibly needed
        our Revolution Family to                        part of your own solution, not your own problem. Get out   donations, we received the gift of a new understanding of
        yours. This month--we are                       of your own way.                                   Jewish life in Cuba, and we most certainly left behind a piece
        gifting you some extra love                                                                        of our hearts with our Cuban Jewish brothers and sisters.
        because we are so thankful                      ♥Cowards never start, winners never quit, and
        to you all. Keepsake love                       quitters never win. Don’t ever quit on love. Remember,      I am deeply grateful to the volunteer leaders who took
        notes are special because                       fear is the opposite of love.                      part in this incredible journey with Federation. I’m reminded
        they hold sentimental                           ♥Dating is a journey. There will be highs and lows.   of a quote by Rabbi Lord Jonathan Sacks of blessed memory:
        value. These love notes are designed specifically for our   Focus on the destination.              “Never believe that a handful of dedicated people can’t
        loyal readers, Single or Taken. The annotations below   ♥Online dating is a horror story. You could lose it   change the world. Inspired by faith, they can.”
        physically represent the care and research we put into our   all--the same way people can lose themselves in Las
        work. You can hold on to these love notes or pass them along   Vegas! Stop rolling the dice. If you stay too long, you may
        to someone who may need to hear them. Read to the end   never come back emotionally or physically. Turn on any
        to discover the most vital note--guaranteed to elevate your   streaming service, and you will see the reality of online
        mindset this month.                             dating. The following stories are based on true life events.

        ♥Practice kindness. If you don’t practice kindness in   Here is a list made just for you by your matchmakers:
        life, love, work and play, you will reap what you sow. One
        of the biggest turnoffs is coming into the gate – or date, or   -Lover, Stalker, Killer
        room, or party – with a bad attitude.           -Love, Janessa (Podcast Series)
        ♥First impressions matter. We have learned that your   -The Tinder Swindler
                                                        -Dirty John
        impression of a person usually forms in the first 60 seconds.   -Sweet Bobby: My Catfish Nightmare
        So make sure that your “hello” is a good one.   -Fake Profile
        ♥Age is just a number! It’s never too late, but don’t   -Why Did You Kill Me?
        get stuck on the bench. You are not getting any younger.   -Untold: The Girlfriend Who Didn’t Exist
        ♥Love begets love. Our office rule is: “Only Love is
        Spoken Here!” Go on a date with this in mind, and you   Thank you so much for following the real matchmakers for
        will get a second date! No one likes a grouch.  over three decades! This month, we are celebrating 34 years
                                                        in the love industry and eleven years of Revolution Dating
        ♥Successful Dating requires Time, Money, and    (a brick-and-mortar powerhouse of a business). We invite
        Emotion: Dating is a “Relationship Investment” of all   you to join us in our LOVE movement. You have arrived.
        three, so get used to it. With our pre-screened clients,
        relationships move along quickly and yield a higher ROI.   Much Love & Gratitude,
        If you don’t invest, you won’t progress.
        ♥Inner beauty trumps exterior beauty every day of the   Kelly & Miranda
        week. Looks don’t mean a thing when it comes to success
        in date-land. Exterior beauty might get you in the door, but   #34YearsOfExperience  #WhyWaitJustDate
                                                        #LoveOffline #MatchmakingRoyalty #TellYourFriends
        can you get a second date? Inner beauty is key.   #ComeAliveIn2025
        ♥If you are striking out, look in the mirror and soul
        search. Are you doing the work to be your best self? Or   Kelly Leary© has 34 years in the
        are you expecting your matchmaker to deliver love to your   dating industry and a master’s degree   Shabbat dinner
        doorstep like a pizza? Matchmaking is a collaboration.   in clinical psychology. She has been
        Connect, bond, show your good side, listen to feedback,   written about in Modern Luxury
        cooperate, and be open to advice. If you go to your doctor   Magazine Palm Beach and Modern        Lighthouse ArtCenter Opens
        and don’t listen to one word of his advice, fail to take your   Luxury Manhattan, The Palm Beach
        medicine and remain sick, is it your doctor’s fault? No.   Post, The Shiny Sheet, Stuart News,     State-of-the-Art Glass Studio
        ♥Don’t be too picky. We have a female client who   Jupiter Magazine, and many more.                   Lighthouse ArtCenter
        won’t date a man under 6’4”. If your criteria is strict, be   Revolution Dating clients are pre-screened in person,
        prepared to wait longer than someone more open-minded.   including background  checks and  ID  verification.   proudly announces the
        High standards are acceptable if you understand the other   Professional photos are taken by the staff. Revolution   grand opening of its
        person must like YOU back. Dating is a combat sport. Be   Dating is NOT online dating or blind dating. In addition   newly renovated Glass
        realistic and self-aware.                       to providing matchmaking services that make singles   Studio, a cutting-edge
        ♥Men bear the brunt of dating. So ladies, don’t abuse   “UN-single” through their exclusive club memberships,   space dedicated to fused
                                                        Kelly and her A-List Team also provide feedback from
        this love note or use them for a free meal. Always be   dates when appropriate. Mock Dates are available by   glass artistry. As the only
        courteous and say “thank you!”                  request. Single Coaching Sessions and Evaluations are   glass studio in North
        ♥Maintain an attitude of gratitude. This applies to your   also available by request for non-members or as an add-  Palm Beach County, this
        love life and far beyond.                       on to some memberships. *All inquiries are confidential   upgraded facility features
        ♥More good than bad. If your date is relatively   *Specializing in representing jet-setting clients with a   seven kilns, state-of-the-art
                                                        second home in the Northeast/Tri-State Area. Do call the
        reasonable and only a bit questionable, give it the green   central hotline at 561-630-9696 (XOXO) or scan the QR   equipment, and expanded
        light and continue to the next date.            code below to hold your place in the club. Time flies!   workspace,  allowing  for
        ♥50:50. This is about talking too much--not paying the                                             more advanced classes and  Carolyn Austin
        tab! While dating, keep an eye on your conversation and                                            specialty workshops.
        your listening skills. Take turns. Your discussion should
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