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Northern Notes

Loggerhead Shrikes – wings, a smaller head
and a thinner bill. The
Nature’s Butcherbird Loggerhead Shrike’s
black mask acts like
By Katie Roundtree, the black paint athletes
Director of Finance and wear to keep the sun’s
Administration, Northern glare from impeding
Palm Beach County eyesight.
Improvement District Where they
The Loggerhead Shrike truly stand out is in
is a gray and white bird that their unique hunting
resembles a Mockingbird techniques. The shrike,
at first glance. Both are a carnivorous bird, has a
types of songbirds with a preference for lizards, bugs, and small animals, unlike the “tomial teeth.” These specialized “teeth” are used to
similar overall gray, black seeds and berries that mockingbirds enjoy. Their hunting dispatch rodents by striking the nape of the neck, instantly
and white pattern and are style is both fascinating and terrifying for their prey. paralyzing them, and then shaking them with enough
about the size of a cardinal or robin. The shrike has Shrikes hunt from above, diving down to snatch their force to break their necks. They are quick and efficient
blacker wings, a larger head, a black mask, and a heavy, prey in their hooked bill. The upper part of the shrike’s hunters, earning them the nickname “butcherbirds.” Their
hooked bill, unlike mockingbirds that have grayer hooked bill features a pair of built-in projections called genus name, Lanius, is derived from the Latin word
“butcher.” Shrikes can also hover over prey, waiting for
The Singles Scene Column © the perfect moment to strike.
These remarkably intelligent birds then impale their
prey on barbed wire, thorns, tree branches, or other sharp
Real Talk: Your Love Life for the faint of heart—it’s a combat sport. You will take a few objects to immobilize and kill it, if their beak hasn’t
already done the job. This practice, akin to a human’s
By Kelly Leary, M.S. hits along the way, but you must keep going if you want to pantry or larder, also helps them store food for days if
& Miranda Capparelli score the touchdown. food is scarce. A large pantry can serve to attract mates
(The Award-Winning Know Your League or feed juveniles. This practice can also help remove
Matchmakers) It’s crucial to understand what “league” you should toxins, making the prey safe to eat after a few days. For
be dating in. You can’t be a third-string player on a instance, impaling a toxic monarch butterfly helps break
“To truly change the community football team and expect to date the head cheerleader down toxins, making it safe to eat after a few days.
way we approach love, we of an NFL team. If you have incredibly high standards, make sure Another reason for their macabre tendency to impale
have to go to the source your attributes match what you’re looking for in a partner. Ask a their prey is due to their tiny feet and legs. Their beak
of everything we do: our brutally honest friend or, better yet, ask your matchmaker. We’ll
minds.” — Todd Perelmuter give you the truth (while your friends might sugarcoat it). Most and hunting abilities are similar to hawks and falcons,
Romance has arrived of our clients appreciate this transparency. but their passerine feet are similar to songbirds and can
and you have front row only perch on branches instead of using them like hawks
seats. Cupid’s arrow is Optimism and Open-mindedness and falcons to rip and tear. The barbed wire and sticks
aimed, and couples are Remember, there is a pot for every lid. Don’t let low hold the prey in place so the shrike can eat it. Don’t judge
falling in love all over town, self-esteem hold you back from believing in love. If
thanks to us. February is all you find yourself thinking, “No one will ever love me,” STOP. their feet too quickly, though; shrikes have been known
about LOVE. Whether you’re actively looking for it or quietly You are lovable, and you deserve the best partner in the world. to carry prey the same size as themselves.
wishing for it, LOVE is on everyone’s mind this month. You Start telling yourself: “I am lovable, and love is on its way.” Stay Loggerhead Shrikes are typically found in open areas
can run, but you can’t hide from the magic of Valentine’s Day. optimistic, and get off that negative train—it’s headed nowhere. with scattered shrubs and trees, but the species can also
So, how is your love life? (Take a moment to think about it). Is that really where you want to go? be found in more heavily wooded habitats with large
Do you need a little extra help from our sweet, professional
cupids this month? Well, good news—we’re right here in your More Amazing Singles Than Ever openings and very short habitats with few or no trees.
local area, ready to help! As always, don’t forget to share this We’re excited to report that we’re meeting more They particularly like tree snags (dead trees), where they
valuable info with your single family and friends—especially incredible, like-minded singles than at any other time can perch high up to look for prey.
during this inspiring month. They might just be more motivated in our history. Nationwide exposure and a recent article These vicious, intelligent, ruthless birds are amazing
to take action than they think. in The Shiny Sheet have been an astronomical experience for animals in our area. Next time you see a gray and white bird,
the club and its members. Times have changed, and so has
The Power of a Two-Some our matchmaking style. New candidates for men and women look closely and see if it might be nature’s butcherbird.
Countless studies have shown that we’re at our best are walking through our doors every day. Our database is NPDES tip: Safely use and dispose of pesticide. If all of
when we’re in a healthy relationship. It’s not money, fame, or growing and ever-changing, and the quality of matches pack the pesticide cannot be properly used, check with your solid
beauty that brings true happiness—it’s togetherness. We ask a powerful punch. waste management authority to find out when and where to
people of all ages—from 20 to 80-plus—what their happiest properly dispose of this type of hazardous waste.
moments have been, and the overwhelming answer is always The Right People Are Out There
the same: “The best time of my life was when I was in a loving, We feel so fortunate to work with such attractive, Photos by Lucas Shaffer,
committed relationship.” successful, and positive clients. Our clients are too NPBCID Environmental Manager
wise and too busy for the bar scene or online dating. They
It Makes Perfect Sense want quality, and they deserve it too.
When you’re in a relationship, you have someone In honor of love month, here’s one final piece of advice.
to share life’s joys with, and someone to lean on during the “Treat yourself the way you want to be treated by others.
tough times. You have a partner to help you plan your future, Love yourself, and you will be loved.” Love the world, and it
and a person who becomes your rock, your sounding board, will love you back. It’s the LOVE MOVEMENT. Join us and
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week. Not only does this connection improve your emotional Happy Valentine’s Day Wishes and Caviar Dreams to all
health, but it’s also essential for your physical well-being. A of you! May you find love in 2025—with yourself and with
supportive relationship gives you something to look forward to others. We are obsessed with 2025 and can’t wait to make this
every day, and that’s crucial for mental and physical wellness. year even better—together!
Thank you for sharing your time with us today. We
Taking Responsibility for Your Love Life appreciate all of you. Sunday, March 9
Deep down, no one wants to be single forever. Yet, Xoxo – Kelly & Miranda
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