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Local Happenings from page 8 Hi s sc h o o l i n g , sp e n t
predominantly dedicated to the
School, one of the city’s many Title 1 schools. He was able arts, offered him a tremendous
to take some art classes and, one day, at one of the school’s education in art that he would
art exhibits, a scout from the Bak Middle School of the Arts have never received attending
approached Mateo about applying to his school. With help ordinary schools. Thinking art
from his teachers and other kids who had gone through consisted mainly of painting
the same process, he filled out the necessary application and drawing when he began,
forms and set up a date for his tryout. his mind opened to what else
He’ll never forget that day. Full of nervous tension, was possible. He learned color
he went to the Bak MSOA campus, where he and other theory, art history, different
potential students were led into a room with four kids at styles and disciplines, trying his
each table. These tables were stacked with sheets of card- hand at etching, sculpting, and
stock paper, scissors, and tape, and each child was given many other mediums.
the same assignment: to build a structure using the least After high school he went to Croquet Club’s veranda venue
amount of tape as possible. He must have done a good job work on a cleaning crew with
as he was accepted, and subsequently attended Bak for the his parents. He might have been stuck in that job had it not to accumulate the necessary money to take the six-week
next three years. After that, he went on to the Dreyfoos been for a sign he noticed about a place called Benzaiten beginner’s course, he saved up enough to cover half
School of the Arts and ultimately finished his junior and Center for Creative Arts, which had glassblowing classes. the tuition and paid the other half with his tax return’s
senior years at Lake Worth High School, where he was He had to check it out. Once in the center, watching dividend check. This was a determined young man. He
encouraged to take part in the city’s famous Street Painting people doing the extraordinarily hard work of blowing began volunteering when he could and the Benzaiten’s
Festival. glass into beautiful creations, he was hooked. Determined staff was so impressed with his abilities and determination
that he won a small scholarship that enabled him to take
The Singles Scene Column © the center’s next level, eight-week course.
Since then, he has won another, larger scholarship

and finally was sponsored by the center, and friends of
Real Talk: Your Love Life for the faint of heart—it’s a combat sport. You will take a few the center, to be Rob Stern’s assistant at Pilchuk, the
internationally famous glass school founded by Dale
By Kelly Leary, M.S. hits along the way, but you must keep going if you want to Chihuly. During this stint he met many hardworking
& Miranda Capparelli score the touchdown. professional artists who have made their careers in the
(The Award-Winning Know Your League field of glassblowing, sharing in their comradery and
Matchmakers) It’s crucial to understand what “league” you should experiencing their strong sense of community and shared
be dating in. You can’t be a third-string player on a knowledge. He understood the fullness of what it meant
“To truly change the community football team and expect to date the head cheerleader to call yourself a professional artist. Yes, it could be fun,
way we approach love, we of an NFL team. If you have incredibly high standards, make sure but it also meant many long years of hard work to hone
have to go to the source your attributes match what you’re looking for in a partner. Ask a your skills and to ultimately develop a signature style that
of everything we do: our brutally honest friend or, better yet, ask your matchmaker. We’ll
minds.” — Todd Perelmuter give you the truth (while your friends might sugarcoat it). Most you could call your own.
Romance has arrived of our clients appreciate this transparency. He now works at Benzaiten five days a week, which
and you have front row has enabled him to quit his cleaning job. Working as an
seats. Cupid’s arrow is Optimism and Open-mindedness assistant to the many professional artists who rent time at
aimed, and couples are Remember, there is a pot for every lid. Don’t let low Benzaiten has empowered Mateo and made him proficient
falling in love all over town, self-esteem hold you back from believing in love. If
thanks to us. February is all you find yourself thinking, “No one will ever love me,” STOP. enough in his skills so that one day soon he will be able
about LOVE. Whether you’re actively looking for it or quietly You are lovable, and you deserve the best partner in the world. to begin making his own exotic creations. A career in art
wishing for it, LOVE is on everyone’s mind this month. You Start telling yourself: “I am lovable, and love is on its way.” Stay is definitely not for the faint of heart.
can run, but you can’t hide from the magic of Valentine’s Day. optimistic, and get off that negative train—it’s headed nowhere. To learn more about the gala, please contact the
So, how is your love life? (Take a moment to think about it). Is that really where you want to go? Benzaiten office or go to their website and press On
Do you need a little extra help from our sweet, professional
cupids this month? Well, good news—we’re right here in your More Amazing Singles Than Ever the Veranda under the Events tab. You can also make a
local area, ready to help! As always, don’t forget to share this We’re excited to report that we’re meeting more donation online or by contacting the office.
valuable info with your single family and friends—especially incredible, like-minded singles than at any other time www.benzaitencenter.org
during this inspiring month. They might just be more motivated in our history. Nationwide exposure and a recent article (561) 508-7315
to take action than they think. in The Shiny Sheet have been an astronomical experience for inspired@benzaitencenter.org
the club and its members. Times have changed, and so has
The Power of a Two-Some our matchmaking style. New candidates for men and women Hours: Tuesday through Saturday, 10 a.m. to 5 p.m.
Countless studies have shown that we’re at our best are walking through our doors every day. Our database is Find Us: 1105 Second Avenue South, Lake Worth Beach,
when we’re in a healthy relationship. It’s not money, fame, or growing and ever-changing, and the quality of matches pack FL 33460
beauty that brings true happiness—it’s togetherness. We ask a powerful punch. GPS doesn’t always get you here: Exit I-95 at Sixth
people of all ages—from 20 to 80-plus—what their happiest Avenue and go east. Take a left at the blue Kwik Stop
moments have been, and the overwhelming answer is always The Right People Are Out There
the same: “The best time of my life was when I was in a loving, We feel so fortunate to work with such attractive, Store and then a right on Third Avenue South. Park in our
committed relationship.” successful, and positive clients. Our clients are too parking lot or anywhere on the street.
wise and too busy for the bar scene or online dating. They
It Makes Perfect Sense want quality, and they deserve it too. Wine, Cheese, and Wisdom
When you’re in a relationship, you have someone In honor of love month, here’s one final piece of advice.
to share life’s joys with, and someone to lean on during the “Treat yourself the way you want to be treated by others.
tough times. You have a partner to help you plan your future, Love yourself, and you will be loved.” Love the world, and it Chabad of Palm Beach Gardens recently launched a
and a person who becomes your rock, your sounding board, will love you back. It’s the LOVE MOVEMENT. Join us and seminar titled Decoding the Talmud. The class began with a
and your biggest cheerleader. Two beats one, any day of the enroll today--before we book solid! wine and cheese spread, allowing the crowd to mingle. The
week. Not only does this connection improve your emotional Happy Valentine’s Day Wishes and Caviar Dreams to all lecture explained the Talmud as the comprehensive Book of
health, but it’s also essential for your physical well-being. A of you! May you find love in 2025—with yourself and with Jewish Law, as well as why it was written and the unusual
supportive relationship gives you something to look forward to others. We are obsessed with 2025 and can’t wait to make this
every day, and that’s crucial for mental and physical wellness. year even better—together! manner in which it was written.
Thank you for sharing your time with us today. We By the end of the class, students had a deep appreciation
Taking Responsibility for Your Love Life appreciate all of you. of how cherished the Talmud is to Jews and why antisemites
Deep down, no one wants to be single forever. Yet, Xoxo – Kelly & Miranda were so passionately opposed to it so as to burn it in public.
many will be alone this February—and possibly longer— As they left the class uplifted, students were able to appreciate
because they’re not owning their love life. They’re too comfy #34YearsOfExperience #WhyWaitJustDate #LoveOffline
in their comfort zones, waiting for something to happen instead #MatchmakingRoyalty #TellYourFriends why we kiss the book, and why it holds the key to Jewish
of making it happen. Some people blame others (or even an ex) #ComeAliveIn2025 survival through the ages.
for their single status, but here’s the truth: you are responsible
for your relationship status. Kelly Leary© has 34 years in the dating
industry and a master’s degree in clinical
Facing the Truth psychology. She has been written about
In the world of dating, it’s easy to get stuck in patterns in Modern Luxury Magazine Palm
of blaming external factors rather than reflecting on Beach and Modern Luxury Manhattan,
our own actions, dating style, or mindset. Taking ownership The Palm Beach Post, The Shiny Sheet,
of your love life requires self-awareness, self-improvement, Stuart News, Jupiter Magazine, and
and a willingness to face the discomfort of stepping outside many more. Revolution Dating members
of your comfort zone. are pre-screened in person, including background checks.
Fear of rejection, getting hurt, or losing freedom often Professional photos are taken by the staff. Revolution Dating
holds people back, but this is precisely what keeps them from is NOT online dating or blind dating. In addition to providing
finding happiness. Online dating is a risky platform, and we matchmaking services that make singles “UN-single” through
get that. This is why we’re here! Unlike online dating, we vet their exclusive club memberships, Kelly and her Team also
every single candidate and connect with them personally. We provide feedback from your dates when appropriate. Mock
act as cheerleaders, and sometimes we hold up a mirror when Dates are available by request. Single Coaching Sessions and
we see our clients standing in their own way. Tough love leads Evaluations are also available by request for non-members or as
to success, and we’re fortunate that most of our clients listen an add-on to some memberships. *All inquiries are confidential
to us. *Specializing in representing jet-setting clients with a second
home in the Northeast/Tri-State Area. Call the central hotline
Taking Control Leads to Growth at 561-630-9696 (XOXO) or scan the QR code below to hold
Taking responsibility for your love life is a mindset your place in the club.
that opens the door to personal growth and increases your
chances of finding your grand finale relationship. Dating isn’t Local Happenings on page 10

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