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TequesTa profiLe from page 1 of California at San Francisco
and underwrite the cost for
$620,000 in donations to the Aicardi Syndrome Aicardi families to attend
Foundation since 2005. the every-other-year family
The annual event is a passion project for Jupiter Law conference where people
Center’s principal attorney, Adam Gumson, and his wife Lissa, from all over the world gather
whose oldest daughter, Ava, was diagnosed as an infant with to exchange information.
Aicardi Syndrome, a rare congenital neurological seizure This, in turn, enhances each
disorder which inhibits the normal development of motor skills, family’s ability to care for
sight and speech, causing mild to profound developmental its own Aicardi child. Since
delays. When she was diagnosed, the Gumsons were informed only 4,000 girls worldwide
that Ava’s life expectancy was no more than two years. are afflicted with Aicardi
Now 20, Ava continues to defy the odds. She attends Syndrome, there is very little money for research and the
The Learning Academy on the campus of the Els Center of foundation is made up entirely of volunteers (mostly the
Excellence and although she is non-verbal, severely delayed affected families and their extended family and friends).
and has multiple daily seizures, she is a happy, joyful girl From the sequenced head caps of ABBA to the wild hair and
whose smile and laugh lights up a room. What started as a famous black and white face makeup of KISS to John Lennon,
small party with friends and family hosted at the Gumsons’ Sonny and Cher, Tina Turner, Willie Nelson, Madonna and
home in the early years has blossomed into a major annual Elvis, partygoers reached into the archives for inspiration.
event held for the last five years at Tequesta Country Club. The muse for this annual affair – Lissa and Adam’s daughter
The monies raised since 2006 help the foundation fund Ava – came as a Pink Lady from Grease (as did many others
research grants at both Baylor University and the University in attendance), bobbing her head and cheering on those who

The Singles Scene Column ©

Special Holiday Edition by: Kelly Leary, M.S. & Miranda state of mind. In dating and relationships, a healthy mindset
Capparelli, The Real Matchmakers means knowing that opportunities are endless, and the best
is yet to come.
Do December. Do LOVE.
And just like that, we find Shift your focus this December from what’s missing to what
ourselves in the magical you have and you will have even more because you are
month of December. So, grateful. Celebrate the little victories: a great conversation,
did you love more in 2024? a kind gesture, or even the courage to put yourself out there.
If you fell short of your When you view the world through the lens of gratitude and
personal goals this year, possibility, you naturally attract more of the same.
here are Four Secret Santa
Tips destined to increase At Revolution Dating, we see time and again how an
the odds of wrapping up abundant mindset transforms our clients’ love lives. Those
December with a big red who believe in their worth and trust the journey tend to
bow. Now is the time to experience greater success—not because they’re lucky, but boogied on the dance floor. The tip jars on the pianos were
bask in all of your hard because they’re open to receiving the love and joy they lined with generous donations as guests requested their favorite
work invested in family, friends, and business in 2024. This deserve. They are open to our guidance and faith in them. songs, with 100 percent of the band’s tips donated back to the
is the perfect time to show some extra love to yourself. If We only want the best for our clients--and usually they only cause. Photo ops in front of a blanket of draped gold tassels
your circle is authentic, they will adore this ramping up in want the best for themselves. Add a dash of realism to that adorned with famous album covers and disco balls set the
you--and therein lies a gift to the people you love. Ready to recipe and you are on your way to a delicious December. mood and the food, drinks and service from Tequesta Country
rock December with us? Simply cut this article out and read it Club staff made it a rocking (and rolling!) good time.
often all month long and do share this with your single family At Revolution Dating, we believe the final chapter of “Because the condition is so rare and affects such a
and friends too. Thank us later. the year should be the best part of the year and it will
help you to create an even better 2025. The predictions small population, research is just so limited, and the only
1. Splurge on YOU. are in: We are all about to walk into one of the best way for us as families to encourage institutions to delve
years of our lives. So, let’s set ourselves up for some
Giving yourself gifts of love and attention will automatically extra love in our personal lives. Whether you’re single, deeper into the causes of Aicardi Syndrome is to fund
trigger your brain to say “I am worth it!” Parents, dating, or married, this month is a marker for good research grants,” Adam Gumson stated. “And the family
grandparents, and over-nurturers can get stuck in a path moves and action. conferences are so essential to creating and developing
of thinking solely about others. As matchmakers, we urge a community of families who are all going through the
you to put yourself first. This is a gift of acknowledging So, as you deck the halls same things, like what medicines and diets work best to
how hard you have worked this year. Spoil yourself with and countdown to midnight, combat seizures, what medical procedures and therapies
a gift that keeps on giving --I.E. better connections and remember: your December have helped, what equipment and other technology have
better relationships. Your loved ones will appreciate the can be filled with excellence, improved the quality of life” chimed in Lissa Gumson.
newfound smile on your face. NOW, that’s a GIFT. laughter, and abundance. Adam Gumson continued, “One family conference
And who knows? It might costs aover $100,000 when calculating all of the food,
At Revolution Dating, we see this principle come to life just be the month that rooms and audio visual equipment necessary to put on a
every day with clients of all ages. Clients who are confident, changes everything. Fall successful conference, so our party, and other families’
successful, and self-aware tend to attract partners who reflect into Romance this holiday
those same qualities. This December, prioritize YOU. We season with the help from fundraising efforts, are absolutely essential to support
have clients enroll on December 30th--and guess what--they The Pros! the continuation of the great work that the foundation
are guaranteed to have a secret glow on New Year’s Eve does.” The Gumsons have become more and more active
2025--even if they don’t have their dating portfolio ready Thank you so much for following us for so many years. in the foundation over the years, with Adam lecturing
yet. Hope is an inevitable aphrodisiac and it is contagious. We appreciate your loyalty and love. Wishing you and at the conferences on various topics such as estate
yours a very Happy Holiday Season 2024! Stay tuned for planning, guardianship and fundraising, and assuming
2. Let Romantic LOVE be Your North Star. more love. the presidency of the foundation this past June.
Love comes in many forms—look for it everywhere-- Lissa handles a variety of tasks, too, and the Gumsons’
because it is all around you. Enjoy all forms of love from Xoxo - Kelly & Miranda other two children, Lilly and Zane, attend the conferences
platonic to romantic to familial to self-love. The holiday and assist with child care and speak on the sibling panel,
season is an ideal time to reconnect with those who matter #LoveOffline #MatchmakingRoyalty #TellYourFriends answering questions from new families about what it
most to you. Notice love. Notice your need for love. #OneOnOneMatchmaking #YouHaveArrived is like to have a sister with Aicardi Syndrome. “Their
participation has helped them feel like they are not
For singles, this is an excellent time to meet someone new. Kelly Leary© has 33 years in the dating industry and a alone since they get to see and meet other families, and
There is a certain openness this time of year--only found master’s degree in clinical psychology. She has also been
in December--and especially at Revolution Dating which written about in Modern Luxury Magazine Palm Beach especially other siblings, dealing with similar issues,
happens to be the Corporate Headquarters of Love, est. 2014. and Modern Luxury Manhattan, The Palm Beach and both of them have become so much more grounded
Post, PalmBeacher Magazine, Stuart News, Jupiter and empathetic by just being present at the conferences
3. End with the Lesson of JOY Magazine, and many more. Revolution Dating members and being exposed to the highs and lows of living with
Have you taken yourself or others too seriously this past are pre-screened in person including background checks. an Aicardi child. No one wanted to be a part of this club
year? December highlights celebration, compassion, and Professional photos are taken by the staff. Revolution but, if there is a silver lining, it is that it has introduced
laughter--and that is all. Dating is NOT online dating or blind dating. In addition us to such incredible people from all over the world and
to providing matchmaking services that make singles taught us and our children that there is a higher calling
If you’re single, loosen up and elevate your mindset. A “UN-single” through their exclusive club memberships, to help others than just being concerned with ourselves.
shared laugh can turn a good experience into a great one. Kelly and her Team also provide feedback from your It has been incredibly rewarding for our whole family to
Create memories that linger long after the holidays. dates when appropriate. Mock Dates are available by be so involved,” Lissa commented.
request. Single Coaching Sessions and Evaluations are To learn more about Aicardi Syndrome,
Joy is the best feeling on Earth. It makes it all worthwhile. also available by request for non-members or as an add- the Aicardi Syndrome Foundation or Ava Shaye
Could you use more joy in your life? Follow us for more...joy. on to some memberships. *All inquiries are confidential
*Specializing in representing jet-setting clients with a Gumson and/or the other Aicardi girls, log on to
4. It is NEVER too late! second home in the North East. Call the main hotline www.aicardisyndromefoundation.org and/or www.
ouraicardilife.org or contact Jupiter Law Center at
Start at 40. Start at 70. Start in December. Start at 5:00pm. at 561-630-9696 (XOXO) or scan the QR code below to (561) 744-4600 if you have any other questions about
Just start. Abundance isn’t just about material wealth; it’s a hold your place in the club.
Aicardi Syndrome or about how you can help support
the foundation.