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From the rabbi

Building a World Without we have settlements, and they attacked us before the first out of a feeling of inadequacy. Thus the Talmud (Megillah
14a) defines the hatred of Haman as a “ditch in a field” — a
settlement was ever built. They hated us when we assimilated
Anti-Semitism into their culture, and they hate us when we live Jewish lives. profound sense of inadequacy.
They hated us when we had no way of defending ourselves Having clarified the root of the problem, the Rebbe
By Rabbi Dovid Vigler and, now they hate us when we do. We simply can’t win! proceeded to map out its cure:
We all know that anti- In a stunning declaration, the Talmud (Tractate Shabbos As a small child, Zalman Aharon, the older brother of
Semitism is an enormous 89a) answers this enigma in one fell swoop. It identifies the the future Fifth Rebbe of Chabad, Sholom DovBer, often
problem. Even more painful cause of anti-Semitism as the Giving of the Torah to the complained that he was noticeably shorter than his younger
than the animus of our enemies Jewish People on Mount Sinai, 3337 years ago. The Talmud brother. One day, the Zalman Aharon sneaked up behind his
is the silence of our friends. explains that the reason the mountain was named “Sinai” is brother and pushed him lightly into a small ditch. As the
But why do they hate us? that sinai is a homophone; sinai in Hebrew sounds the same younger brother stood up in surprise, the older brother seized
It seems to be the great as sinah — the Hebrew word for “hatred.” the moment and pointed out that now he was taller.
paradox of humanity: “Why was the Torah given on a mountain called Sinai?” The Rebbe Maharash, the father of the two boys, observed
They hated us when we asks the Talmud. “Because the great sinah — the tremendous the entire episode. He asked for a chair, ordered his older son
were poor, and they hate us hatred aimed at the Jew — emanates from Sinai.” to stand on it, and asked him, “Tell me, who’s taller now?”
when we’re rich. They hated In a sermon delivered on Purim 1965 — the festival in The boy answered excitedly that yet again he was taller.
us when we had no land of our own, and now they hate which we celebrate victory over the genocidal intent of the “Aha!” said the father. “There you are! To be bigger
us when we live on our own land. They attacked us when Iranians — the Rebbe explained that anti-Semitism is born than your friend, there is no need to pull him down. Simply
elevate yourself!”
The Singles Scene July 2024 of trying to take the Jews down, the Gentiles should strive
Along the same lines, the Rebbe explained that instead
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to lift themselves up. This is achieved by realizing that the
By Kelly Leary, M.S. & Miranda Capparelli a shallow and inefficient way of finding true love. It makes us Jews don’t have a monopoly on G-d. Every human being was
The Official Summer Dating sad, but we are thrilled to be the solution to the wreckage forged created in the image of G-d, and we are all G-d’s children.

At the root of jealousy is fear and insecurity. People
by digital dating.
Report 4. Tradition is Essential. In our office, old-school dating who aren’t happy about others, typically aren’t happy about
themselves either. You are jealous only because you are
methods have re-emerged in a refreshing manner. People are unaware that everything you need is already inside you. To
“And the men who hold high places getting to know each other better before making harsh, false live without comparison is to remove a tremendous burden.
Must be the ones who start judgments or jumping into the wrong relationship too quickly
To mold a new reality (love bombing). A first date through us is not an interview. A group of Chabad rabbis from across Canada arranged
Closer to the heart”~~RUSH, Circa 1977 We do the interviewing for all of you. Our client’s job is to to meet with Canadian Prime Minister Brian Mulroney.
go on a date to have fun. That’s it. Simple. Make dating fun They purchased a beautiful silver Kiddush cup to present
Happy 4th of July to all of again—with our help! to the prime minister as a gift. They planned on explaining to
our clients, couples, and him that every human being, especially a government leader,
friends. We are not surprised 5. The Non-Negotiables. You do have to make a change and
that our phones continue give yourself permission to be vulnerable. There is no way can figuratively “make Kiddush” — to sanctify his or her
to ring off the hook in the around it–unless you want to be alone for life. There are no surroundings. The gift of a Kiddush cup would symbolically
heat of summer. Confidential dating hacks (other than hiring a “real” matchmaker). There remind the prime minister of this noble thought and intention.
applications pour in with the is no insurance policy on love per se. You can, however, date The day before the meeting, they wrote to the Rebbe
same zeal as September and smart while positioning yourself to meet authentic people via telling him of their planned appointment with the prime
October (in preparation for private introductions from connected matchmakers. Meeting
holiday coupling). The human new people through mutual contacts is the way to go--and this is minister and the gift they had prepared.
condition and mood is quite how our clients feel. Just like meeting their new date through a The Rebbe’s response proved enlightening.
sensitive lately, whether you friend. Friendships form quickly here and it starts with one fifteen “Of what practical use is a Kiddush cup to the prime
are aware of it or not. Society minute phone call. Essentially, working with a matchmaker is how minister? [He was not obligated by Jewish Law to recite the
yearns for extra light and to stay emotionally, fiscally, and physically secure. Kiddush.] I would suggest, instead, that you present him
happiness which we are here
to serve to all who cross our path in or out of our office. 6. The Takeaway. If you or someone you know has fallen victim with an English prayer book, as it includes prayers such as
to the surface-level digital dating dilemma, we cannot fault you. Modeh Ani — a prayer recited each morning thanking G-d
To add to the drive for better vibes and higher vibrations, online This is where many dating problems begin and end. We advise for giving us life — which are relevant and meaningful to
dating is taking an even deeper nose dive with each passing month you to get real—live and date in real life. Love offline because it’s all humans, Jews and non-Jews alike.”
in 2024. The statistics are noteworthy. Quality singles looking for time and life is moving quickly. Be confident, smart, and carry on The United States is extraordinary in that it was the
a true connection are no longer interested in being matched by an with passion this summer. Every pot has a lid. Stop overthinking
algorithm on a risky dating site. That would be like buying your and make your move halfway through the year and end the year only country of its time founded without any anti-Semitic
wedding dress at a flea market or finding your financial advisor under the mistletoe. This July, we have some exclusive specials undertones. Here the Jews have always been safe. How is
on the dark web. You can’t trust what you read online and we that will only be available to our loyal readers and their friends. this country different from all other countries?
all know this by now. Fortunately for you and us, summer love Share the love and pass it on! Be sure to mention this article and I firmly believe that it’s the wisdom of our Founding
in real life (IRL) is alive and thriving--thanks to our hard work Code: SUMMERLOVE24 when you book your confidential Fathers, who imbued within every citizen of this great nation
and huge following. appointment.
an inherent sense of value and worth in The Declaration of
Read on to validate your own movement today. We look for In times of doubt, create more love. We wish you tons of Independence:
certain traits in our clients. After three decades of experience happiness this July and for the last six months of the year. “We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are
filtering and screening our applicants, we have gotten MUCH May the force of love be with you. created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with
PICKIER as to who we will represent. Thank us later. If the certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty
following points resonate with you, you know what to do next. As XOXO,
always, if you are TAKEN, do share this fun news with your single The Double Win Matchmakers, Kelly & Miranda and the pursuit of Happiness.”
family and friends! We thank you for your love and loyalty to us. Being Jewish is far more a responsibility than it is a
#MakeDatingFunAgain #SummerLove #LandOfTheFree privilege. Instead of strutting around like peacocks, we are
#HomeOfTheRev #America #TellYourFriends called upon to shine a light unto the Nations — by inspiring
CURRENT CLIMATE:
Revolution Dating them to embrace their own organic connection with G-d
1. Upscale Singles are Ready for an Upgrade. Outside of our Founder and CEO, Kelly Almighty. It is our obligation to empower all our fellow
community, the social scene for dating in 2024 has morphed Leary, M.S. has 33 years human beings with the awareness of their unique Divine
into a low-grade rodeo filled with Buckle Bunnies and Clowns. in the dating industry mission in this world — to make this world a beautiful,
This has caused people to simply stay home and remain single. and a Master’s Degree in prosperous, and peaceful place.
In fact, more people are single than ever before and many are Clinical Psychology. She The reason Jews discourage Gentiles from converting to
losing hope. Times have changed (way too much). We are far has also been written about
away from traditions and dating norms, and it needs to STOP. in The Palm Beach Post, Judaism is that we sincerely believe that you don’t need to
Women and men need a return to chivalry. Nostalgia is the order PalmBeacher Magazine, be Jewish in order to have a deep, personal, and wholesome
of the day in this dating arena. Stuart News, Modern relationship with G-d. As they are, Gentiles are capable of
Luxury Palm Beach, nurturing magnificent connections with their Creator. In fact, it’s
2. The Script Needs a Flip. At the center of the dating and M ode r n L uxur y far, far easier to be a righteous Gentile (with just seven universal
damage is the dehumanizing effects of online dating and too Manhattan plus many
much technology. People are being punked, ghosted, and more. Revolution Dating members are pre-screened mitzvahs ratified by every U.S. president since Ronald Reagan)
disillusioned by far too many “options”--creating casual, creepy, in-person including background checks. Professional than it is to be a righteous Jew (with 613 commandments). The
and unfulfilling interactions. Today’s dating culture no longer photos are taken by the staff. Revolution Dating is NOT Code of Jewish Law (Rambam, Laws of Kings 8:14; Laws of
encourages singles to focus their energy on one person at a online dating or blind dating. In addition to providing Teshuva 3:5) declares that Righteous Gentiles have a portion in
time. This results in superficial dating and thinking the “next” matchmaking services that make singles “UN-single” the World to Come, just like Jews do.
will be better. through their exclusive club memberships, Kelly and her
team also provide feedback from dates when appropriate. No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.
3. Transactional Dating Must Cease. Outside of our office, Mock Dates are available by request. Single Coaching Someone else’s success is not your failure. Winners don’t
dating has become transactional and short-lived, with immediate Sessions and Evaluations are also available by request for make excuses — they train while losers complain. Failure
gratification as the goal versus true love. Sending meaningless non-members or as an add-on to some memberships. *All defeats losers but motivates winners.
texts and gazing at photos to create false conclusions and opinions inquiries are confidential. *By demand, a Northeast/TriState Instead of resenting the people who are jealous of you —
about total strangers is on the rise. The vicious cycle will continue area Hub is now available for east coast clients that love
for you and/or your single friends if the cycle is not broken. The to travel. Do call the main hotline for more information at respect their jealousy. These are the people who think you are
longer a single person remains online dating (or alone), the more 561-630-XOXO (9696) or learn more on our website at www. amazing! Let us respond to hate with love and to emptiness
jaded they will become. If they wait too long and then come into RevolutionDsting.com :: Home of THE Award-Winning with purpose — shining the light of consciousness on all
our office, the first few weeks are spent debriefing them on all Matchmaker This is a First Come, First Serve Model, so humanity, one precious soul at a time!
the bad habits they picked up with their online expeditions. It is do get your name on the A-List today. Rabbi Dovid Vigler is the spiritual leader at Chabad of
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