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          ClevelaNd CliNiC maRtiN HealtH News



      After Beating Cancer,                                But Stephanie                                     Dr. Castro-Combs said Stephanie’s case was unusual.

      Stephanie Tufano Is Racing                         decided to take her                               “She was fit and healthy and had no family history of
                                                                                                           colon cancer.”
                                                         friend’s advice. Her
      Toward Optimum Health                              bloodwork showed she                                Stephanie was also only 38 years old; 90 percent of
                                                         was very anemic, so she                           colorectal cancer cases are diagnosed in individuals 50
        Stephanie Tufano will never forget the day she was   made an appointment to                        years of age and older.
      diagnosed with Stage 2 colorectal cancer. At the time, she was   see Juan Castro-Combs,                Once the tumor was removed by a Cleveland Clinic Martin
      a certified running coach and health coach and was working   M.D., a Cleveland                       Health surgeon, Stephanie received a clean bill of health. She
      towards certification as a personal trainer with the National   Clinic Martin Health                 did not require chemotherapy or any further treatment.
      Academy of Sports Medicine. She was also training to run   gastroenterologist.                         “When you catch colon cancer early and treat it early, there
      in her second ultramarathon.                       Aft er having a                                   is a good chance you can cure it,” Dr. Castro-Combs said.
        It was during her marathon training that Stephanie started   colonoscopy, Stephanie                  Following her diagnosis and surgery, Stephanie’s life
      experiencing “weird” stomach pains, difficulty catching   received the shocking                      returned to normal. “Had I not listened to my body and
      her breath, and a rapid heartbeat. When a physician friend   news.                                   took the time to get checked out, I might have gone another
      recommended Stephanie make an appointment to have     “I had a tumor in my                           six months to a year as the tumor kept growing,” she said.
      bloodwork done, she considered putting it off.     colon the size of a cue                             Since her experience with cancer, Stephanie married
        “I figured I was healthy, I was an athlete and ate a plant-  ball,” she said. “I didn’t            her husband, Chris, and gave birth to their son the
      based diet,” she said.                             know what to expect. It was a scary time.”        following year.
                                                                                                             She is grateful to Dr. Castro-Combs for finding and
                                                                                                           curing her cancer. “Dr. Castro was wonderful,” she said.
                                                                                                             Stephanie also feels fortunate to have been given the
                                                                                                           opportunity to be a wife and mother and to continue to
                                                                                                           pursue her passion of running and helping others achieve
                                                                                                           a healthy lifestyle.
                                                                                                             Cleveland Clinic Martin Health provides patients with
                                                                                                           the compassionate, comprehensive care they deserve, close
                                                                                                           to home. Visit ClevelandClinicFlorida.org to learn more.



                                                                                                                           Kids


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                                                                                                            Stop Yelling At Your Kids

                                                                                                            By Jim Forgan, Ph.D.,
                                                                                                            School Psychologist
                                                                                                              “Here we go again,
                                                                                                            mom’s rocket launcher
                                                                                                            went off and she’s
                                                                                                            yelling at me.”  This
                                                                                                            statement captures how
                                                                                                            kids I work with often
                                                                                                            describe how their mom
                                                                                                            or dad deals with them
                                                                                                            when they are not acting
                                                                                                            right.  “Yelling  is  the
                                                                                                            only way I can get him to listen and behave,” is a
                                                                                                            common parent response. All agree, yelling does not
                                                                                                            contribute to a peaceful home.
                                                                                                              Yes, at times we parents must raise our voices
                                                                                                            and make it stern and serious. But yelling, shouting,
                                                                                                            screaming, and threatening is parenting by instilling fear
                                                                                                            into your child. Unfortunately, fear and intimidation
                                                                                                            don’t produce lasting behavioral changes. Sure, your
                                                                                                            child might behave when you’re around but leave them
                                                                                                            with relatives or a sitter and prepare yourself for a bad
                                                                                                            report. When you yell at your child to get him to do
                                                                                                            what you want, he is learning that’s how he should
                                                                                                            treat his peers or friends when he encounters someone
                                                                                                            who doesn’t do what he wants. You are the example
                                                                                                            he looks to for learning how to interact with others.
                                                                                                              Do  you yell at your child  when  he  asks you  to
                                                                                                            read an unknown word from his homework? No, you
                                                                                                            teach him how to pronounce the word. Try to maintain
                                                                                                            this teaching mindset when it comes to his behavior.
                                                                                                            Keep teaching him over and over how to behave
                                                                                                            appropriately.
                                                                                                              Perhaps ask him questions instead of yelling
                                                                                                            commands. “Are you being helpful? Is this good for the
                                                                                                            family? What will happen if you don’t stop?” People
                                                                                                            often tune out yelling, but a question has an implied
                                                                                                            response requirement. Being asked a question requires
                                                                                                            reflection and thought, and this helps your child’s mind
                                                                                                            to shift and transition. Parenting requires us to modify
                                                                                                            our behavior just like modifying our child’s behavior
                                                                                                            so keep learning and practicing.
                                                                                                              Maybe you’ve thought, “Why does he act like
                                                                                                            that? Maybe there is something wrong with him. Is
                                                                                                            he ADHD or maybe autistic?” Our testing process
                                                                                                            provides information to help answer your questions.
                                                                                                            Call to discuss your child as we test for autism, dyslexia,
                                                                                                            dysgraphia, ADHD, depression, learning disabilities, and
                                                                                                            anxiety. Visit JimForgan.com or call (561) 625-4125.

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