Page 13 - The Jewish Voice - July '22

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Lifestyles from page 12 Should I consult with an attorney? please follow these simple
The short answer is yes. Guardian advocacy can be a steps to land a second date.
Will Your Child Need a particularly challenging process, which is why we encourage you It’s easy to forget “first date
etiquette” after a long time-out
to seek the guidance of an experienced special needs attorney for
Guardian Advocate? assistance. Although it is possible to seek guardian advocacy of (either due to the pandemic, a
your child without the guidance of attorney, there is no substitute break-up or loss of spouse). It
Submitted by Anné to discussing your unique needs with an experienced special doesn’t matter what your age
Desormier-Cartwright J.D. needs attorney who can help ensure your child remains legally is--just get out there again
When it comes to your protected once he or she turns 18 years old. and enjoy the romance that
child, there are likely no steps We know this article may raise more questions than it answers is bound to follow with these
you would not take to protect for you. If you have specific questions about guardian advocacy in simple steps!
him or her. If your child has Florida, do not wait to contact us and let us answer your questions 1. You like each other.
a developmental disability, about your unique legal needs. So, make that date right away! Don’t drag out the first date
however, it can be challenging If you have questions about your estate plan and what commitment with too many phone calls and time delays. You
to determine the right steps documents you should have in place to plan your estate, schedule will seem fearful or disinterested. Once made, be on time and
to take to provide adequate a free consultation today by calling our office at 561-694-7827, don’t cancel or reschedule. This is not a good way to start a
protection. Until your child Anné Desormier-Cartwright, Esq., Elder & Estate Planning first date. You don’t want to start your date with an apology.
is 18, you can legally make Attorneys PA, 480 Maplewood Drive, Suite 3, Jupiter, FL 33458. 2. Your appearance is important. Dress to impress – for
decisions for them. However, when a child turns 18, he or she The content of this article is general and should not be relied your first date it’s far better to be overdressed rather than
is by law considered an adult and therefore can make decisions upon without review of your specific circumstances by competent underdressed. Remember we are putting our best foot forward.
on his or her own behalf, without the permission of his or her legal counsel. Reliance on the information herein is at your Moreover, make sure your inner glow shines too!
parents. For parents of a developmentally disabled child, this can own risk, as it expresses no opinion by the firm on your specific 3. Practice Kindness. The biggest turnoff is a person who
be a time of uncertainty. circumstances or legal needs. An attorney client relationship is walks into a date, room, or party – with a negative attitude. It
To evaluate whether your child needs a guardian advocate not created through the information provided herein. is imperative that we all practice kindness in life, love, work,
First, here is some information about guardian advocacy in To comply with the U.S. Treasury regulations, we must and play – single or not. Speak positive words. Eliminate ANY
Florida. inform you that (i) any U.S. federal tax advice contained in this preconceived notions and ideas you may have about your date.
What is a developmental disability? newsletter was not intended or written to be used, and cannot Be open minded.
According to Section 393.063(12) of the Florida Statutes, be used, by any person for the purpose of avoiding U.S. federal 4. Play It Cool. Don’t go overboard on the compliments,
an individual is considered to have a developmental disability tax penalties that may be imposed on such person and (ii) each it’s hard to be attracted to a person who is practically drooling
if he or she has “a disorder or syndrome that is attributable taxpayer should seek advice from their tax advisor based on the over you. Perhaps that seems strange, and in a way it is
to intellectual disability, cerebral palsy, autism, spina bifida, taxpayer’s particular circumstances. flattering, but it makes you come across as too pushy. Don’t
Down syndrome, Phelan-McDermid syndrome, or Prader-Willi overdo it and don’t under do it!
syndrome; that manifests before the age of 18; and that constitutes The Singles Scene © 5. While on the date: No Texting. No exceptions. Leave
a substantial handicap that can reasonably be expected to continue your phone in the car if you can.
indefinitely.” How to CRUSH that First Date! 6. Be Real. A first date is about being real and authentic.
What does it mean to be a guardian advocate and are there No wacky outfits. No “over the top” jewelry or makeup. No
different types? By: Kelly Leary, M.S., Founder of Revolution Dating dirty jokes. Mind your manners and be nice to the wait staff!
In Florida, guardian advocacy is a process where family “Do not anticipate trouble or worry about what may never Be polite to those around and speak highly on life whenever
members or caregivers request the court to obtain legal authority happen. Keep in the sunlight.~~Benjamin Franklin possible...especially on a first date. Don’t take over the
over an individual with a diagnosed developmental disability. Summer is a great season for budding romance and conversation. There will be time to share your story but wait...
Guardian advocacy typically comes in three different types. commitments that stick for years to come. This July, we want ok?
An individual can become a guardian advocate of a person, of you to leave your comfort zone and enjoy dating again. It is 7. Ask Questions on your date and listen. What’s your
property, or both. Becoming a guardian advocate of a person possible. Most of all, don’t let FIRST DATE PHOBIA freeze date’s favorite topic of conversation? We all love to feel
allows the advocate to make personal decisions about the physical you up. We are here to help you over the hump. We want you on important and interesting. If you can make your date feel these
well-being of the individual, while property rights include the that first date, second date, third date--and ultimately TAKEN.
right to contract on behalf of the individual. When you do find someone interested in you and vice versa, Lifestyles on page 14

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