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ArtCenter. His work that depict maximalism in a minimalist setting. Her work Men’s Club Farbrengen
mixes iconography, is characterized by escapist and endearing subject matter,
sometimes including including brightly colored candies, donuts, and care bears The Men’s Club at Chabad of Palm Beach Gardens
guitars with abstract that evoke comforting childhood memories. gathered for a heart-to-heart fabrengen at its monthly BBQ.
g e o m e t r i c a n d “My work is an ongoing survey of the objects, landscapes, The crowd enjoyed dinner and an open bar followed by
biomorphic forms, and people around me: both past and present. I am drawn a deeply personal conversation about anti-Semitism that
using a raw, expressive to the overly saturated, the kitschy, and the saccharine. became emotional and personal at times. The men have
style. His paintings My paintings are meditations on objects made of plastic, developed deep friendships and are comfortable sharing their
are highly textural, polyester, and artificial flavoring,” said Nicole Newsted. personal perspectives without inhibition.
with otherworldly Proceeds from the concert and a portion of the proceeds
subjects and layered with meaning. from art sales will go toward the ArtCenter’s mission to
“Mending from disjointed pandemic years, we re-connect inspire, engage, and connect all walks of life through the
in Like Mind to share again,” said Jason Newsted. “Images universal language of art through classes, exhibitions, and
built from opposite influences and common attractions events. One of the ArtCenter’s signature programs, Art
bring us closer; they’re bright and previously unseen works For All, offers art to underserved populations regardless of
developed and created through our journey together.” financial resources. The program provides youth scholarships,
Nicole Newsted’s paintings are in collections across the art education to schools that would otherwise not have art
U.S., Europe, the Middle East, and Asia. Nicole is a formally in their curriculum, and art classes to veterans, seniors, and
educated artist who studied art at Arizona State University individuals with special needs. For more information, visit
on scholarship. Her paintings on canvas use brilliant colors lighthousearts.org.

The Singles Scene Column © Survivors Enjoy Chanukah

The 2023 Singles Market is Lives with Family: What is their age? Occupation? Cultural Festivities at Eat and
HOT! position? Why do they live with family? Is it a home with an east Schmooze Event
wing? Or the basement?
By Kelly Leary, M.S., In celebration of
CEO/Matchmaker Lives with a Roommate: What is their age? Why? How? Who?
“You’re so vain. I bet you What? When? Have fun exploring this topic as some have valid Chanukah, Alpert
think this song is about reasons and remain age appropriate while others are not. I come Je wi sh Fa m i l y
you.”— Carly Simon right out and ask this in my interviews, but if you do it you will Se rvice hoste d
look intrusive. Only the matchmaker can ask this type of question. over 40 local Palm
Happy New Year Everyone! Beach County
Isn’t it remarkable how New Construction: Usually upscale, up-to-date, and financially Holocaust survivors
quickly time flies with each FIT. This person knows what they want and is customizing it to at a holiday event
passing year? Tis’ another suit their needs. They may be demanding and uncompromising.
golden opportunity to get They may be rigid in and out of the bedroom. They may be worth in Boynton Beach.
it right! I hope everyone is it though! I would not rule this out. With the number of
setting up their vision boards Holocaust survivors
and manifesting an ideal and Old Construction: Worth the wait. Look for a solid foundation. dwindling every single year, Alpert JFS hosts socialization
dreamy year ahead. January is the BEST month on the calendar to Choose cement over wood. Look for good lines and structure. events designed to both celebrate the survivors and offer them
make changes. Hold your ground this year. Don’t let the time slip Don’t be fooled by an attractive outward appearance and forgo a space to spend quality and joyful time together.
away from you--just don’t. You will thank me later for this gentle the inspection! Get a second and third opinion and listen to your The event featured lively entertainment by PinkSlip Duo
nudge. For those of you that are single and frustrated, know that the gut. Seek out the opinion of a true friend when in doubt.
Florida market is booming--and I’m not talking about Real Estate. and a luncheon of traditional holiday dishes, including jelly
Waterfront vs. Western Lifestyle: This is a matter of preference. donuts and latkes (potato pancakes) with applesauce.
There is a Singles Tsunami going on right before our eyes~~and it Do you prefer the mountains or the ocean? You can also have the Eva Weiss, Alpert JFS Holocaust Care Manager and Lead
has been going on for months. Thousands of singles have moved to best of both worlds too--if you date smart! Wouldn’t it be nice to Social Worker, said, “The whole idea is to gather survivors
our local area in the last couple of years, former dynamic duos have have a partner with a home in two zip codes? together in a supportive, loving environment where everybody
broken up, and countless others have given up on online dating for knows the person sitting next to them and understands who
good. ONLINE DATING took an even bigger nose dive in the This is a tough market and let’s face it, when you date you are they are and some of the trauma and some of the stress and
last three years. It is more absurd than ever before. It is Babylon selling yourself. Hopefully, you don’t have to try too hard. Don’t
meets the Wild West of dating and it is destroying norms and over sell. Believe in yourself. Move with care and kindness at horrible experiences that they may have experienced during
the modern dating culture in multiple ways. Men and women your center and you will never lose. the Holocaust years. Our purpose today is not to talk about
are not enjoying the transition and loss of general dating any of those things but to have an environment where people
decorum. THIS is why matchmaking has become so popular. Welcome to the dating boom in Florida--offline-in REAL LIFE! get to smile and laugh and share jokes and enjoy food and
The future is bright. entertainment.”
MATCHMAKING has become more attractive to quality “Chanukah celebrates the strength of the Jewish people
singles as a traditional approach to expanding your social circle Thank you for sharing your time with me again today. Thank in defeating its adversaries, and dates back to the second
wisely. Consider these basic facts as you move towards your you to my publisher for noticing my talent (as a matchmaker
decision to hire a matchmaker. Would you prefer a matchmaker and writer) so many years ago. This paper is about sharing century BCE when, against all odds, a small band of faithful
who is LOCALLY established? Does your matchmaker have an good news with our readers in our communities. Do tell your but poorly armed Jews defeated one of the mightiest armies
ACTUAL OFFICE or does she want to meet you out in public? friends. Keep it simple, folks. We all need something FUN on earth and reclaimed the Holy Temple in Jerusalem,” said
Would a REAL matchmaker seek to enroll you on a zoom or a to talk about and something to look forward to in 2023. Marc Hopin, CEO, Alpert JFS. “The menorah, with its eight
phone call? Doesn’t that miss the point? We meet all of our clients Together--anything is possible. candles for each night of Chanukah, symbolizes the miracle
in our office in-person. Our private practice is centrally located of a light that burned for eight days throughout the ancient
to all of you (NOT out of state) right on PGA BOULEVARD. Our hotlines do blow up in January, so call soon to beat the rush! battle, with just one day’s worth of oil. Celebrating Chanukah
We have been here for ten amazing years and counting and we We can’t wait to here your story!
could not be happier. We have much more love to share too--in with survivors of the Holocaust reminds us of how the light
the coming year. We continue to learn and grow and change, for XOXO, Kelly of the human spirit can also prevail in the face of horrific
ourselves and for you. It is an honor to serve all of you, sincerely. adversity.”
#LoveOffline #DateLocal #SecretsSafeHere #TellYourFriends
With that thoughtful note, join me as I entertain the concept #SustainableLove
of comparing the current singles market to the real estate
market. Multiple risks abound in 2023 for a buyer (aka: Kelly Leary© has 32 years in the dating industry and a Master’s
dater). The stakes are high. Enjoy my fun comparison below Degree in Psychology. She’s been profiled by The Palm Beach
and let me know what you think! Post, PalmBeacher Magazine, Stuart News, The Sun Sentinel,
Vero Beach 32963 and many more over the years. Revolution
TYPES OF SINGLES ON THE MARKET: Dating members are pre-screened including background
The Short Sale: Typically, a disgruntled person that does not checks. Professional photos are taken by the staff. Revolution
want to be single. They didn’t choose this label per se, and they Dating is not online dating or blind dating. In addition to
are mad at the world. There is some hope with healthy therapy providing matchmaking services that make singles “UN-single”
or a time-out to rebuild thy soul. through their exclusive club membership, Kelly and her team
also provide feedback from your dates when appropriate.
The Foreclosure: This is a man or woman you want to Call 561-630-XOXO (9696) or 772-932-HERE (4373) for a
stay away from at all costs. This person is likely damaged or LIVE chat with a matchmaker. You may also visit us at www.
destroyed, sadly. They really should not be dating as they are in revolutiondating.com. *All inquiries are confidential.
some kind of crisis. They are likely in shambles--from financial
to emotional or physical destruction. This is the saddest type of
single to encounter. They need so much work--but it’s not your
job to renovate. This will take a long commitment on the buyer’s
part to rebuild. The question remains: Is it worth it?

The Renter: This person is just not secure for a reason. They
may be new to the area (which is okay, as long as they are rooting
down in some way here in Florida). How long is the lease?
What are their intentions? Are they financially sound or amidst a
financial setback? Why do they rent? Find out before you proceed,
without judgment. If you have concerns, just ask me what I think.
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