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                                                                 Dating

The Single Scene Column©                                         	 Nexting: With all the apps at our fingertips and singles              to come. At least someone
                                                                 finding it so easy to communicate via a smart phone, anyone
By Kelly Leary©, Founder of Revolution Dating                    can be anyone. False confidence abounds and many just feel              is doing it right! Say no to
                                                                 they can jump to the next in an instant...and guess what? They
Decoding the New Dating Language                                 can. This is a weak testimony to a real man or woman who is             online dating and make your
                                                                 looking to date sincerely as a romantic goal. If you feel you
	 The Love Business                                              are in this trap, get out quickly.                                      appointment to meet with
                                                                 	 Stashing: When the person you’re dating doesn’t
is booming with new                                              introduce you to their friends or family, and doesn’t post              Kelly and her team, as she

couples and engagements.                                         anything about you on social media. Basically, you’re their             is in very high demand this
I can’t count how many                                           secret boyfriend or girlfriend, while they feel justified in
dynamic duos are enjoying                                        “stashing” you on the shelf, pretending nothing is going on             summer! Their schedules
the fireworks together all                                       to the outside world, and keeping their options open. If they
summer long because of us.                                       proclaim you as their romantic interest, they will have to give         are filling up quickly! Call
Summertime is the kick-off
of Cuffing Season, the time                                      up their search.                                                        the main hotline now at 561-
when finding a girlfriend                                        	 Benching: Before you have “the talk” with your new
                                                                 partner about whether you are in an exclusive relationship,             630-XOXO (9696)! If not
or boyfriend becomes                                             you are at risk of being “benched.” Like the sports term,
                                                                 where players are left on the bench as reserves, you might find         now then when? Enjoy these
even more appealing as                                           yourself being someone’s back-up option as they continue to
                                                                 look around. They may come back to you if nobody better                 photos and know...you could Barbara & Gordon, est.
the countdown to the big                                         comes along, but that doesn’t give one high hopes for the
                                                                                                                                         be next! Have no fear! Your 2016, will be paired off again
holidays is officially in                                        relationship, does it?
                                                                 	 Today, more than ever, I realize why this club has become             summer is LOVE here!          this summer thanks to RD!
motion.                                                          so popular among our members who are too smart for the
	 As your leader of love, I have decided to bring you up to      shark tank. If you are someone who has resisted dating                  Theresa (now an honorary
date on some new “terms” being used by singles today. The        because of all of the above, I don’t blame you. BUT you do              Cupid too) & Frank, est. Chris & Dani, est. 2015, will
                                                                 have to stand up for what you want at some point and take a             2017, will be boating all be watching fireworks again
old-fashioned meeting through introduction by a friend is        strong calculated risk. Not everyone is obsessed with his or            summer long thanks to RD! this summer thanks to RD!
                                                                 her screens! Not everyone would risk his or her safety, money
the best way to go...and that is what we recreate at my club.    or sanity on internet dating or blind flirting. You don’t have          Big Boat. Small Boat. No Boat.
                                                                 to either. Don’t think of what you have to lose today, think of
So Ready-Set-Go. Be aware and enjoy the next chapter of          what you have to gain. Be confident, smart, and carry on my                    Stuart CoriNthiaN YaCht CluB ...
your life. Knowledge is power. The power of love knows no        friend! It’s time you start dating smart too. You got this--and
boundaries but first we must know who we are dating and          so do we!                                                                 is the Treasure Coast’s premier destination for friendship and
what goes on “Behind the Screens!” (Yikes). Online daters        	 Let’s claim some internet-independence!                                fun, both on and off the water. Our casually elegant waterfront
beware...and social media lovers...heed my advice! It’s just                                                                              clubhouse and marina provide the perfect location for sharing
too easy to get into trouble if you are dating via the internet                                                                 XOXO,    fun-filled days and warm evenings with friends. Share in the fun!
in any way. In this day and age, dating begins and ends with
our smart phones…Time To Get Smarter.                                                                                             Kelly     Weekly Happy Hour & Dinner • Theme Parties
                                                                                                                                                    Dinner Dances • Cruising Program
Learn the Dating Dictionary, circa 2018:                         	 Kelly Leary, Founder of Revolution Dating has a master’s                          Sport Clay Shooting • Mah Jong
	 Micro-Cheating: Inappropriate flirting or contact with
another that lacks physical touch. It goes beyond emotional      degree in psychology and 27 successful years in the dating               Ladies Luncheons • Poker • Book Club • Film Club
infidelity, in that this usually occurs on an electronic device  industry. A top matchmaker, now known as THE Florida                                        and so much more!
in one way or another. How do you know if you have crossed       Matchmaker, she has been profiled by ABC News, The Palm
the line? If you are doing anything you would not want your      Beach Post, PalmBeacher Magazine, The South Florida                               CaLL or eMaiL ToDay!
partner knowing about (when it comes to dating or flirting)                                                                               772.221.1900 | scycboat@comcast.net
like texting inappropriately, sending photos or sharing          Business Journal, and numerous other media outlets. Please
intimate feelings with anyone other than your “exclusive”                                                                                  4725 SE Capstan Avenue • Stuart, Florida 34997
                                                                 call our hotlines seven days a week at 561-630-XOXO (9696)
partner, then you are micro-cheating.
	 Love Bombing: The flame that burns too fast dies quickly.      in the Palm Beaches and South Florida area or 772-932-
You feel someone fell madly in love with you but they have
never met you or you met briefly. In this case you definitely    HERE (4373) on the Treasure Coast. You may also visit our
should think twice. Why is he or she falling so fast and they    informational only website at www.revolutiondating.com. All
barely know you? How many times have they done this              inquiries are confidential. Background checks are required.
before?                                                          All applicants must be prescreened in person at our private
	 Catfishing: When a person lures someone into a                 practice to be eligible. This is NOT online dating.
relationship by pretending to be someone else online or has
greatly altered their appearance. Catfishes often steal photos   Around Town TAKEN Couples & More...
from strangers’ profiles, and sometimes even create multiple
personas to make their stories more believable. They will try    	 This club has found that connecting to the right people
to continue a “fake” relationship for months--always avoiding
a face-to-face meeting.                                          at the right places for the right causes, attracts even more
	 Ghosting: When someone you’ve been seeing vanishes             dynamic and successful singles as a bonus! Not only is this
without a trace. You could have been dating a few days,          award winning dating and events club growing by leaps and
                                                                 bounds, they are also rising in the ranks of the eyes and hearts
or months, but one day they simply disappear. They don’t         of the public. All eyes on Revolution Dating, and Kelly and
return your texts, and may even block you to avoid having        her team of real life Earth angels. There is simply no reason
the break-up conversation with you. It’s cowardly, but sadly     to spend the summer alone with this club in town...just look
common, especially with a vast array of dating apps at our       at these photos! Revolution Dating would like to thank all
fingertips.                                                      who have supported and promoted their club for so many
	 Zombie-ing: If you’ve been ghosted, the culprit may
resurface. It’s usually a decent amount of time after they       years. America, especially Florida, will be seeing much
disappeared, and they often act like nothing happened, like
a revived corpse.                                                more growth from this successful dating club in the years
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