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The Single Scene Column©

By Kelly Leary©, Founder of Revolution Dating                  believable. They will try to continue a “fake” relationship                                                                                                    	 Kelly Leary, Founder of Revolution Dating has a
                                                               for months--always avoiding a face-to-face meeting.                                                                                                            master’s degree in psychology and 27 successful years
Decoding the New Dating                                        	 Ghosting: When someone you’ve been seeing                                                                                                                    in the dating industry. A top matchmaker, now known as
                                                               vanishes without a trace. You could have been dating a                                                                                                         THE Florida Matchmaker, she has been profiled by ABC
Language                                                       few days, or months, but one day they simply disappear.                                                                                                        News, The Palm Beach Post, PalmBeacher Magazine,
                                                               They don’t return your texts, and may even block you                                                                                                           The South Florida Business Journal, and numerous
	 The Love Business is                                         to avoid having the break-up conversation with you. It’s                                                                                                       other media outlets. Please call our hotlines seven days
booming with new couples                                       cowardly, but sadly common, especially with a vast array                                                                                                       a week at 561-630-XOXO (9696) in the Palm Beaches
and engagements. I can’t                                       of dating apps at our fingertips.                                                                                                                              and South Florida area or 772-932-HERE (4373) on the
count how many dynamic                                         	 Zombie-ing: If you’ve been ghosted, the culprit may                                                                                                          Treasure Coast. You may also visit our informational
duos are enjoying the                                          resurface. It’s usually a decent amount of time after they                                                                                                     only website at All inquiries
fireworks together all                                         disappeared, and they often act like nothing happened,                                                                                                         are confidential. Background checks are required. All
summer long because of us.                                     like a revived corpse.                                                                                                                                         applicants must be prescreened in person at our private
Summertime is the kick-off                                     	 Nexting: With all the apps at our fingertips and singles                                                                                                     practice to be eligible. This is NOT online dating.
of Cuffing Season, the time                                    finding it so easy to communicate via a smart phone,
when finding a girlfriend                                      anyone can be anyone. False confidence abounds and                                                                                                             Around Town TAKEN
or boyfriend becomes even                                      many just feel they can jump to the next in an instant...                                                                                                      Couples & More...
more appealing as the                                          and guess what? They can. This is a weak testimony to
countdown to the big holidays                                  a real man or woman who is looking to date sincerely as                                                                                                        	 This club has found that connecting to the right people
is officially in motion.                                       a romantic goal. If you feel you are in this trap, get out
	 As your leader of love, I have decided to bring you          quickly.                                                                                                                                                       at the right places for the right causes, attracts even more
up to date on some new “terms” being used by singles           	 Stashing: When the person you’re dating doesn’t
today. The old-fashioned meeting through introduction by       introduce you to their friends or family, and doesn’t                                                                                                          dynamic and successful singles as a bonus! Not only is this
a friend is the best way to go...and that is what we recreate  post anything about you on social media. Basically,
at my club. So Ready-Set-Go. Be aware and enjoy the next       you’re their secret boyfriend or girlfriend, while they                                                                                                        award winning dating and events club growing by leaps and
chapter of your life. Knowledge is power. The power of         feel justified in “stashing” you on the shelf, pretending
love knows no boundaries but first we must know who            nothing is going on to the outside world, and keeping                                                                                                          bounds, they are also rising in the ranks of the eyes and hearts
we are dating and what goes on “Behind the Screens!”           their options open. If they proclaim you as their romantic
(Yikes). Online daters beware...and social media lovers...     interest, they will have to give up their search.                                                                                                              of the public. All eyes on Revolution Dating, and Kelly and
heed my advice! It’s just too easy to get into trouble if      	 Benching: Before you have “the talk” with your
you are dating via the internet in any way. In this day        new partner about whether you are in an exclusive                                                                                                              her team of real life Earth angels. There is simply no reason
and age, dating begins and ends with our smart phones…         relationship, you are at risk of being “benched.” Like
Time To Get Smarter.                                           the sports term, where players are left on the bench as                                                                                                        to spend the summer alone with this club in town...just look
Learn the Dating Dictionary, circa 2018:                       reserves, you might find yourself being someone’s back-
	 Micro-Cheating: Inappropriate flirting or contact            up option as they continue to look around. They may                                                                                                            at these photos! Revolution Dating would like to thank all
with another that lacks physical touch. It goes beyond         come back to you if nobody better comes along, but that
emotional infidelity, in that this usually occurs on an        doesn’t give one high hopes for the relationship, does it?                                                                                                     who have supported and promoted their club for so many
electronic device in one way or another. How do you know       	 Today, more than ever, I realize why this club has
if you have crossed the line? If you are doing anything        become so popular among our members who are too smart                                                                                                          years. America, especially Florida, will be seeing much more
you would not want your partner knowing about (when it         for the shark tank. If you are someone who has resisted
comes to dating or flirting) like texting inappropriately,     dating because of all of the above, I don’t blame you. BUT                                                                                                     growth from this successful
sending photos or sharing intimate feelings with anyone        you do have to stand up for what you want at some point
other than your “exclusive” partner, then you are micro-       and take a strong calculated risk. Not everyone is obsessed                                                                                                    dating club in the years to
cheating.                                                      with his or her screens! Not everyone would risk his or her
	 Love Bombing: The flame that burns too fast dies             safety, money or sanity on internet dating or blind flirting.                                                                                                  come. At least someone is
quickly. You feel someone fell madly in love with you          You don’t have to either. Don’t think of what you have to
but they have never met you or you met briefly. In this        lose today, think of what you have to gain. Be confident,                                                                                                      doing it right! Say no to
case you definitely should think twice. Why is he or she       smart, and carry on my friend! It’s time you start dating
falling so fast and they barely know you? How many             smart too. You got this--and so do we!                                                                                                                         online dating and make your
times have they done this before?                              	 Let’s claim some internet-independence!
	 Catfishing: When a person lures someone into a                                                                                                                                                                              appointment to meet with
relationship by pretending to be someone else online                                                                         XOXO,
or has greatly altered their appearance. Catfishes often                                                                                                                                                                      Kelly and her team, as she
steal photos from strangers’ profiles, and sometimes                                                                           Kelly
even create multiple personas to make their stories more                                                                                                                                                                      is in very high demand this

                                                                                                                                                                                                                              summer! Their schedules

                                                                                                                                                                                                                              are filling up quickly! Call

                                                                                                                                                                                                                              the main hotline now at 561-

                                                                                                                                                                                                                              630-XOXO (9696)! If not

                                                                                                                                                                                                                              now then when? Enjoy these

                                                                                                                                                                                                                              photos below and know... Theresa (now an honorary

                                                                                                                                                                                                                              you could be next! Have no Cupid too) & Frank, est.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                              fear! Your summer is LOVE 2017, will be boating all

                                                                                                                                                                                                                              here!                         summer long thanks to RD!

                                                                                                                                                                                                                              Chris & Dani, est. 2015, will Barbara & Gordon, est.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                              be watching fireworks again 2016, will be paired off again
                                                                                                                                                                                                                              this summer thanks to RD! this summer thanks to RD!

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