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The Single Scene Column©

By Kelly Leary©, Founder of Revolution Dating                    shark tank. If you are someone who has resisted dating                  	 Kelly Leary, Founder of Revolution Dating has a master’s
                                                                 because of all of the above, I don’t blame you. BUT you do              degree in psychology and 27 successful years in the dating
Decoding the New Dating                                          have to stand up for what you want at some point and take a             industry. A top matchmaker, now known as THE Florida
                                                                 strong calculated risk. Not everyone is obsessed with his or            Matchmaker, she has been profiled by ABC News, The Palm
Language                                                         her screens! Not everyone would risk his or her safety, money           Beach Post, PalmBeacher Magazine, The South Florida
                                                                 or sanity on internet dating or blind flirting. You don’t have          Business Journal, and numerous other media outlets. Please
	 The Love Business                                              to either. Don’t think of what you have to lose today, think            call our hotlines seven days a week at 561-630-XOXO (9696)
is booming with new                                              of what you have to gain. Be confident, smart, and carry on             in the Palm Beaches and South Florida area or 772-932-
couples and engagements.                                         my friend! It’s time you start dating smart too. You got this-          HERE (4373) on the Treasure Coast. You may also visit our
I can’t count how many                                           -and so do we!                                                          informational only website at All
dynamic duos are enjoying                                        	 Let’s claim some internet-independence!                               inquiries are confidential. Background checks are required.
the fireworks together all                                                                                                               All applicants must be prescreened in person at our private
summer long because of us.                                                                                                     XOXO,     practice to be eligible. This is NOT online dating.
Summertime is the kick-off                                                                                                        Kelly
of Cuffing Season, the time
when finding a girlfriend                                        Around Town TAKEN
or boyfriend becomes                                             Couples & More...
even more appealing as
the countdown to the big                                         	 This club has found                                                                                       Theresa (now an honorary
holidays is officially in                                        that connecting to the right                                            Chris & Dani, est. 2015, will Cupid too) & Frank, est.
motion.                                                          people at the right places                                              be watching fireworks again 2017, will be boating all
	 As your leader of love, I have decided to bring you up to      for the right causes, attracts                                          this summer thanks to RD! summer long thanks to RD!
date on some new “terms” being used by singles today. The        even more dynamic and
old-fashioned meeting through introduction by a friend is        successful singles as a                                                 more growth from this successful dating club in the years
the best way to go...and that is what we recreate at my club.    bonus! Not only is this award                                           to come. At least someone is doing it right! Say no to online
So Ready-Set-Go. Be aware and enjoy the next chapter of          winning dating and events                                               dating and make your appointment to meet with Kelly and
your life. Knowledge is power. The power of love knows no        club growing by leaps and                                               her team, as she is in very high demand this summer! Their
boundaries but first we must know who we are dating and          bounds, they are also rising                                            schedules are filling up quickly! Call the main hotline now
what goes on “Behind the Screens!” (Yikes). Online daters        in the ranks of the eyes and                                            at 561-630-XOXO (9696)! If not now then when? Enjoy
beware...and social media lovers...heed my advice! It’s just     hearts of the public. All eyes                                          these photos below and could be next! Have no
too easy to get into trouble if you are dating via the internet  on Revolution Dating, and                                               fear! Your summer is LOVE here!
in any way. In this day and age, dating begins and ends with     Kelly and her team of real
our smart phones…Time To Get Smarter.                            life Earth angels. There is Barbara & Gordon, est.
Learn the Dating Dictionary, circa 2018:                         simply no reason to spend 2016, will be paired off again
	 Micro-Cheating: Inappropriate flirting or contact with         the summer alone with this this summer thanks to RD!
another that lacks physical touch. It goes beyond emotional      club in town...just look at
infidelity, in that this usually occurs on an electronic device  these photos! Revolution Dating would like to thank all
in one way or another. How do you know if you have crossed       who have supported and promoted their club for so many
the line? If you are doing anything you would not want your      years. America, especially Florida, will be seeing much
partner knowing about (when it comes to dating or flirting)
like texting inappropriately, sending photos or sharing          R.S.V.P. to our Gladiator & Goddess Mixer this month!                   The annual kayaking and paddle board group date adventure
intimate feelings with anyone other than your “exclusive”        Toga-Toga!! Come join THE FLORIDA MATCHMAKERS                           series is in full bloom! Sign up now!
partner, then you are micro-cheating.                            for an epic night!
	 Love Bombing: The flame that burns too fast dies
quickly. You feel someone fell madly in love with you but        General Dentistry
they have never met you or you met briefly. In this case you     Cosmetic & Laser
definitely should think twice. Why is he or she falling so fast
and they barely know you? How many times have they done             Dr. Rosenbusch has been                                                     visit us at:
this before?                                                     practicing dentistry for 32 years                             
	 Catfishing: When a person lures someone into a                 and has extensive experience in
relationship by pretending to be someone else online or has      many aspects of dentistry. His                                                   email:
greatly altered their appearance. Catfishes often steal photos
from strangers’ profiles, and sometimes even create multiple       main focus is on Cosmetic                                   
personas to make their stories more believable. They will        Dentistry, Laser Dentistry and
try to continue a “fake” relationship for months--always
avoiding a face-to-face meeting.                                      Implant Prosthetics
	 Ghosting: When someone you’ve been seeing vanishes
without a trace. You could have been dating a few days,                                             General Dentistry
or months, but one day they simply disappear. They don’t                                            Cosmetic and Laser
return your texts, and may even block you to avoid having
the break-up conversation with you. It’s cowardly, but sadly
common, especially with a vast array of dating apps at our
	 Zombie-ing: If you’ve been ghosted, the culprit may
resurface. It’s usually a decent amount of time after they
disappeared, and they often act like nothing happened, like
a revived corpse.
	 Nexting: With all the apps at our fingertips and singles
finding it so easy to communicate via a smart phone, anyone
can be anyone. False confidence abounds and many just feel
they can jump to the next in an instant...and guess what? They
can. This is a weak testimony to a real man or woman who
is looking to date sincerely as a romantic goal. If you feel
you are in this trap, get out quickly.
	 Stashing: When the person you’re dating doesn’t
introduce you to their friends or family, and doesn’t post
anything about you on social media. Basically, you’re their
secret boyfriend or girlfriend, while they feel justified in
“stashing” you on the shelf, pretending nothing is going on
to the outside world, and keeping their options open. If they
proclaim you as their romantic interest, they will have to
give up their search.
	 Benching: Before you have “the talk” with your new
partner about whether you are in an exclusive relationship,
you are at risk of being “benched.” Like the sports term,
where players are left on the bench as reserves, you might find
yourself being someone’s back-up option as they continue to
look around. They may come back to you if nobody better
comes along, but that doesn’t give one high hopes for the
relationship, does it?
	 Today, more than ever, I realize why this club has become
so popular among our members who are too smart for the
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